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Publisher's Summary

In her global phenomenon The 5 Second Rule, Mel Robbins taught millions of people around the world the five second secret to motivation. Now she's back with another simple, proven tool you can use to take control of your life: The High 5 Habit.

Don't let the title fool you. This isn't a book about high fiving everyone else in your life. You're already doing that. Cheering for your favorite teams. Celebrating your friends. Supporting the people you love as they go after what they want in life.

Imagine if you gave that same love and encouragement to yourself. Or even better, you made it a daily habit.

You'd be unstoppable.

In this book, Mel teaches you how to start high fiving the most important person in your life, the one who is staring back at you in the mirror: YOURSELF.

If you struggle with self-doubt (and who doesn't?)...

If you're tired of that nagging critic in your head (could somebody evict them already?)...

If you're wildly successful but all you focus on is what's going wrong (you're not alone)...

If you're sick of watching everybody else get ahead while you sit on the couch with your dog (don't bring your dog into this)...

...Mel dedicates this book to you.

Using her signature science-backed wisdom, deeply personal stories, and the real-life results that The High 5 Habit is creating in people's lives around the world (and you'll meet a lot of them throughout this book), Mel will teach you how to make believing in yourself a habit so that you operate with the confidence that your goals and dreams demand.

The High 5 Habit is a simple yet profound tool that changes your attitude, your mindset, and your behavior. So be prepared to laugh and learn as you take steps to immediately boost your confidence, happiness, and results.

It's time to give yourself the high fives, celebration, and support you deserve.

©2021 Mel Robbins (P)2021 Mel Robbins

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Mel’s words resonated on a deeper subconscious level. Listening was inspiring and connected me to my values. Your honest approach made it easy to relate with and become engaged. Thank you for being real!

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WOW

mel did it again. :)
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thank you mel for knocking it out of the park

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Loved every minute of it!!!

Loved this book so much that I listened to it twice back to back. The tips are so easy and the science that backs it is incredible. Can’t recommend it enough.

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A Morning walk favorite!!

This book: so real, so uplifting, I loved loved loved it and within minutes of it executed the high five with my kids and myself ! You will love this purchase. A must listen❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Wow. What a book.

This was such an honest and beautiful book. It spoke to me in so many ways. Thank you for sharing your life’s journeys with us.

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This book is golden encrusted with diamonds! 👑

Recently got this book and man oh man it feels like it was right moment right time to be listening to it.
With all the excellent advice, humour and genuine passion to want to help you, Mel Robbin’s The High 5 Habit is definitely a book for anyone who needs to snap out of a funk or gain the motivation needed to keep going and not giving up on their dreams or wanting a better life despite fighting fear and anxiety. Highly enjoyed it! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Mel is the fucking BEST!!

First of all, Mel is now my best friend 🥰
I loved this so much I didn't want it to end!
Mel made me laugh, she gave me tears, she made me say "AHA yesssss", she made me smile, she made me feel sadness, she gave me goosebumps, she made me think and see where my next steps are!
I hung on her every word!
Mel, I want to launch a podcast! And I see hearts everywhere! I actually have a stone heart on my dresser that says "Find beauty in the every day". I've done this for years
If you read or listen to the book you'll understand this 🥰
I loved this book immensely! I love Mel incredibly!
In fact, I'm going to go listen to it and her again! 💞💞
Thank you Mel, you're amazing!! 👏👏👏👏

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Wonderful Listen

Absolutely loved your nook Mel. Im pretty sure you wrote this book directly too me.
Im still learning to take time for myself, You have given me extremely useful tools. Thank You

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Please listen to this book!

I absolutely loved this and you Mel! You are relatable, funny, and inspiring. I enjoyed this book very much and the tears (happy) are rolling down my cheeks as I write this. I’m spreading the news about this gem of a book. Hope to meet you one day! Xxoo

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love Mel Robbins

Best Self Help Guru ever!!! I can't stop listening to this genius. Her words of wisdom have helped me tremendously. Thank You Mel Robbins

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  • Robyn L. Coburn
  • 2021-09-29

Fully actionable advice

Really enjoyed that all the steps are research driven and Mel explains the science clearly. Feels like easy to implement actions to create positive change and dovetails with her other programs.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 2021-10-01

Best book of the year.

Loved the tools and science behind them with the right mix of the metaphysical. It is already helping me gain control of my daily battle with fear and anxiety.

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  • Tiffany Danilewicz
  • 2021-09-30

love love love Mel. another winner 100%. thank you

You did it again girl! A book full of endless inspiration, motivation and stories and concepts that truly hit every single thing that's ever plagued and those that have truly delighted you in some way. A "must read/listen to", and a "must actually do" (high 5!). Incredibly relatable and such an amazing speaker, another 5 star audible, from the amazing "master of motivation" hahaha. 😉 😘 Well done!

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  • Howard_a
  • 2021-09-29

Give yourself a high-5!

I've been a fan of Mel Robbins ever since I got the "5 Second Rule" audiobook a few years ago. I've heard all of her books but I haven't followed her podcast. I saw one of her TV Shows, I think it was the first one, I really can't stand TV (in general,) but I love her books. So I pre-ordered this one months ago, and it finally came out and I'm glad I was between books so I can take it on right away. I love the chapters on jealousy and guilt are really well done and chapter 14 was just AWESOME! She couldn't even read it without tearing up! Just totally lovely! Overall the book provides great advice mainly for being kind to yourself. Self care & love cannot be expressed enough, and she nails it and makes it very actionable! She is very entertaining with her f-bombs in the audiobook, a little tamer in the Kindle version :-) I will try high 5'ing myself in the mirror and see how it goes!

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  • Jesse
  • 2021-10-05

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This is basically a story about how accomplished this author is. She the most influential, most popular, most sought out, and so on and so on… it gets extremely over done hearing her continuing running through her accolades. She does different(annoying)voices in the narration, which were often mood killers. Essentially, we coulda saved 6 hours by her just saying, “look in the mirror, truly believe in yourself, and give yourself a high five when you look in the mirror.” The end.

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  • Malia F
  • 2021-10-08

MEL hits a HOMERUN AGAIN!!!

You HAVE to read this book! It’s changed my life at 53 years old! Let me say, however, that the Audible version is the way to soak in all the scientifically backed knowledge by a motivational speaker! Of course you have to listen to it!
Thank you Mel for your books, I say Touchdown!

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  • Blessed777
  • 2021-10-04

Best Audible Book in My Extensive Personal Development Library

I was entirely awestruck by the straightford wisdom in this book. Mel Robbins has not only done it again, she has outdone herself. 5 Stars is not enough.

Stephen Rue
Certified Life Coach, Attorney, and Author.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 2021-10-04

A great "How To Book" to get your life in order!

I have served in the US Army for over 20 years. and many of the tool Mel Robbins shared in this book are many of the same ones I have personally used to navigate during my career. Now as a small business owner, Mel has brought these tools and skills set back into my life. Much needed and right on time.
thank you Mrs. Robbins for this book. I am truly grateful.
Pat B.

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  • Sometimes I Buy Things
  • 2021-10-01

Mel Robbins has done it again

Mel is one of my favorite self development speakers. She is authentic, real, and gives you REAL & ACTIONABLE advice. She covers every day problems and how we can conquer them with simple and easy tasks. She's also a great and engaging narrator for her book. She cheers you on and motivates you to try what she offers. Highly recommend!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 2021-10-03

Life Changing- this book is gift to yourself!

I began high 5ing myself in the mirror prior to reading this book (follower of Mel on social media) I felt "dumb" and stopped. I binged listened to this book- amazing listen - in 48 hours. I have started high 5ing me again- and I get it! Often with tears and smiles of new learning love for myself (like taking my first steps at 54 yrs young!)- I am again high 5ing myself every morning. I also high five my heart many times a day--something powerful is happening within me. I walked into an abusive hostile job 2 days ago and resigned. What's next? I am not sure- but it is going to be incredible- because- all of the sudden- I am the author of my path forward, not a victim of my past! Will it be easy? no way! But- "I got this!" Thank you Mel- you gave me hope and my wings to fly. I write this with fresh tears and a high five to you Mel Robbins- for the gift YOU have given to me. Thank you!

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  • Mme Apryl Anderson
  • 2021-10-04

Liftin’ me higher

Mel! Once again, the timing of your work in my life comes as a blessing (and no blessing is manifested without a call to action). I’m so grateful for the way you present the science that explains why we do what we do (and don’t do, and do what we don’t want to do), and then you lead us into doing what we ought to do so that we go in the direction that we wanted to all along! Ever since The 5 Second Rule, I’ve witnessed your authenticity as you practice what you preach, and so HIGH FIVE to our latest journey to higher ground ;0)

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  • Monia MOUSSA
  • 2021-09-30

Amazing!

I loved so much the 5 second rule, I love so much Mel Robbins, her incredible strengh she is for me the best coach ever! Her new book The High 5 Habit is just one of my TOP 5 audiobook!! Giving us a high 5 is genius!! and so effective!! Thank you Mel, for everything!!! Don't wait by the audiobook it worths to be heard !!! Many thanks from Lyon, FRANCE.