How do we navigate raising kids while experiencing shifts and evolution in our own understanding of the world? Brian Recker shares his upbringing in Christian fundamentalism and how it shaped his idea of masculinity and fatherhood, and how the authoritarian parenting style he experienced defined gender roles within his community. Brian reflects on his struggle to fit into the masculine stereotype and his desire to please his father and the challenges of stepping away from the church and the loss of community and purpose. He discusses the impact of these changes on his identity and how he navigates fatherhood in the midst of shifting beliefs. Brian Recker shares his approach to parenting and faith after leaving evangelical Christianity. He emphasizes the importance of allowing his children to explore and discover their own beliefs and identities. He creates a safe space for them to be honest about their thoughts and feelings, including their questions about God and sexuality. Brian also discusses his evolving understanding of Christianity and the labels he uses to describe his beliefs. He expresses hope in the next generation and their passion for justice and inclusivity. Brian strives to be a humble and open-minded person, constantly willing to learn and change.