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Jaymee Prichard was a devoted mother of three. Jaime Sue Gustitus was a decorated Air Force officer. Both were deeply loved, deeply accomplished—and both were killed in a calculated act of violence by someone they knew.

In this episode, we walk through the limited facts released by law enforcement, examine the public speculation swirling around the case, and challenge the dangerous narratives that often follow intimate partner homicides. What happened in Greene County was not a mystery of passion—it was a deliberate, devastating loss.

We don’t know the full story. But we know this: Jaymee and Jaime Sue deserved better. And their legacy will not be defined by the man who took their lives

🔗 Sources for Today’s Show

• 🔗 Dayton Daily News
  “Taken too soon: Families mourn, describe Wright-Patt victims of murder-suicide” — Emotional tributes and law enforcement updates.
• 🔗 WLWT Cincinnati
  “Three Wright-Patterson workers dead after suspected double-murder suicide” — Timeline and police statements.
• 🔗 Wright-Patterson AFB Official Site
  “Incident Involving Wright-Patt Personnel Under Investigation” — Formal military response and investigation details.

🌍 Global Domestic Violence Resources:

• UN Women – Ending Violence Against Women
  Offers global advocacy, survivor support, and country-specific resources.
  🔗 unwomen.org
• The National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.-based, with global guidance)
  24/7 confidential support via phone, chat, and text. While U.S.-based, they offer guidance for international callers and referrals.
  🔗 thehotline.org | Call: +1-800-799-7233
• Women’s Aid (UK)
  Offers support, education, and refuge services across the UK, with resources relevant to international survivors.
  🔗 womensaid.org.uk
• DomesticShelters.org
  A searchable database of shelters and services across North America, with educational articles and safety planning tools.
  🔗 domesticshelters.org

🛡️ Veteran-Specific Mental Health Resources

• VA Mental Health Services
  The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs offers counseling, therapy, substance use treatment, and support for PTSD, depression, anxiety, and more.
  🔗 va.gov/mental-health
• Vet Centers
  Community-based counseling centers that provide confidential support for combat veterans, survivors of military sexual trauma, and those adjusting to civilian life.
  🔗 vetcenter.va.gov
• MakeTheConnection.net
  A powerful site filled with real stories from veterans, plus tools to find help based on your specific needs.
  🔗 maketheconnection.net

🧭 What You Can Do Right Now

• Call 988 and press 1

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

In this episode, Tressa confronts the brutal reality of how systems designed to protect victims often do the opposite. Through the story of Megan Montgomery—a vibrant, hopeful woman whose life intersected with law enforcement, the courts, and a culture of institutional silence—we explore the devastating consequences of unchecked power and delayed justice.

From the moment Megan met Jason McIntosh, a police officer with a history of violence, the warning signs were there. But like so many women, Megan did what she was “supposed” to do: she filed protective orders, sought help, and tried to escape. What followed was a chilling unraveling of legal loopholes, judicial delays, and systemic failures that allowed her abuser to remain armed, employed, and dangerously close.

This episode dives deep into the intersection of domestic violence, law enforcement, and the legal system’s complicity. We examine how stalking, firearm access, and institutional loyalty create a perfect storm for intimate partner violence—and why education, accountability, and reform are not optional, but urgent.

If you’ve ever wondered why survivors stay silent, why restraining orders fall short, or how abusers manipulate the very systems meant to stop them—this episode will leave you shaken, informed, and ready to demand better.

Megan Montgomery Charitable Foundation:

🔗About Us - Megan Montgomery Foundation

Here are key sources that document Megan Montgomery’s story and the systemic failures surrounding her case:

The main source for today’s show:
🔗 "The End of The World as I Knew It" by Heather Buckner – Good Housekeeping

🔗Upworthy
Offers a comprehensive overview of Megan’s relationship with Jason McIntosh, the abuse she endured, and the tragic events leading to her death. Includes quotes from her mother and highlights the invisibility of domestic violence behind curated social media images.

🔗WVTM13 News
Features interviews with Megan’s family and friends, reflecting on her life, her advocacy goals, and the creation of the Megan Montgomery Foundation. Emphasizes the emotional toll and the family's commitment to turning grief into action.

🔗People Magazine
Details Jason McIntosh’s guilty plea, Megan’s efforts to help other victims, and her writings during recovery. Includes courtroom statements and reflections from her family about the long-term impact of the abuse.

Resources for survivors and those seeking support (please access only from a device your abuser cannot access):

• National Domestic Violence Hotline
  24/7 confidential support via call, chat, or text. Call 800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788.
• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
  The nation’s largest anti-sexual violence organization. Offers a 24/7 hotline and online chat: 800-656-HOPE (4673).
• NCADV (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence)
  Advocacy, education, and resources for survivors and allies working to end domesti

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

What happens when the very institutions sworn to protect us become the breeding ground for unchecked violence? In this searing episode, we step outside Hawaii—to confront the brutal murder of Tashianna Blake, a mother of two, whose life was stolen by her military husband in a calculated act of cruelty. Her story, set against the backdrop of Fort Carson’s bloody legacy, exposes a chilling pattern: men with no combat history, no PTSD, but a dangerous thirst for control.

From narcissistic manipulation to stolen valor, we examine how military systems fail to screen for sociopathy—and how women pay the price.

Stay tuned for updates on the sentencing of Ruby Tenorio’s killer, and the upcoming trial of Dana Alotaibi’s estranged ex-husband, who stands accused in the gruesome deaths of Dana and her unborn son.

🔍 Verified Sources for the Case of Tashianna Blake

• Dermot Blake’s conviction and sentencing:
• A former Fort Carson soldier, Dermot Blake, was found guilty of first-degree murder for shooting his wife, Tashianna Blake, in front of their two daughters. He received a mandatory life sentence without parole.
• Court documents revealed that Blake forced Tashianna to apologize before delivering the final shots, and that both daughters witnessed the murder

If you’re experiencing DV—please explore the resources below using a device that your abuser cannot monitor.

U.S. Resources

• National Domestic Violence Hotline
  24/7 confidential support via phone (800-799-7233), text (“START” to 88788), and online chat. Offers safety planning, emotional support, and referrals.
• DomesticShelters.org
  Searchable database of over 3,000 shelters and programs across the U.S. and Canada.
• National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV)
  Offers training, technical assistance, and policy advocacy.
• Office on Violence Against Women (OVW)
  U.S. Department of Justice site with links to state coalitions, tribal programs, and national hotlines.
• State-by-State Resource Directory
  From the Office on Women’s Health—clickable map of DV coalitions and services in every U.S. state and territory.

Global Resources

• NO MORE Global Directory
  A comprehensive international directory of DV & sexual violence helplines and services in nearly every UN-recognized country.
• Hot Peach Pages
  Offers DV information & hotline listings in over 110 languages.
• Global Network of Women’s Shelters
  Connects shelters worldwide for advocates/survivors globally.
• Pathways to Safety International
  Tailored support for Americans experiencing abuse while abroad

If you’re a service member struggling with mental health:
• Call 988, t

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

Natasha Soto Rivera was a Marine, a newlywed, and a new mother whose life radiated promise. At just 20, she was thriving in one of the most male-dominated branches of the military. But behind the celebration, something darker was brewing.

This episode traces Natasha’s journey—from boot camp to ballroom, through the joy of motherhood to a night that should have been magical-—but wasn’t. Her story deserves to be heard—loudly, clearly, and without apology. We begin to unravel the silence and honor her legacy.

Also in this episode: updates on Ruby Tenorio’s murder investigation and a disturbing case involving a Naval wife found dead in a Japanese hotel room.

Ruby Araceli Tenorio Obituary (2024) - Cookeville, TN - Hooper-Huddleston & Horner Funeral Homes & Cremations Services - Baxter Cha

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📚 Sources Covering Natasha Soto Rivera’s Case

Fredericksburg Free Lance–Star (Virginia)
This local paper was one of the first to report and is cited in this episode. It provided key details from the police affidavit, including Rodolfo’s 911 call and the forensic findings of a “brutal” beating.

NBC Washington – Court Documents
Includes quotes from the affidavit obtained by the Free Lance–Star, and outlines the timeline of events following the Marine Corps Ball.

🕊️ Natasha Soto Obituary – Reading

If you’re experiencing DV—please explore the resources below using a device that your abuser cannot monitor.

U.S. Resources

• National Domestic Violence Hotline
  24/7 confidential support via phone (800-799-7233), text (“START” to 88788), & online chat. Offers safety planning, emotional support, & referrals.
• DomesticShelters.org
  Searchable database of over 3,000 shelters & programs across the U.S. & Canada.

Global Resources

• NO MORE Global Directory
  A comprehensive international directory of DV & sexual violence helplines & services in nearly every UN-recognized country.
• Hot Peach Pages
  Offers DV information & hotline listings in over 110 languages.
• Pathways to Safety International
  Tailored support for Americans abused while abroad

If you’re a service member struggling with mental health:
• Call 988, then press 1

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

Last episode, we mourned the consequences of untreated PTSD. This time, we confront something far more calculated: a story of entitlement, control, and the deadly cost of leaving.

Sergeant Amy Colbert had done the unimaginable—survived war zones, brought daughters into the world, and chosen freedom after years of abuse. Days after returning from deployment, she packed up her life.

What followed was a chilling truth: for some, being left isn't just rejection—it’s justification for violence.

This episode unpacks the story of a devoted mother, soldier, and woman who was finally ready to walk away. It explores what happens when power, ego, and entitlement collide.

Sources:

📰 News Coverage & Initial Reports

• NBC News
• Great Basin Sun
• Austin American-Statesman

🪦 Memorial & Obituary

• Find a Grave Memorial
• https://greatbasinsun.com/news/2019/apr/12/obituary-amy-contreras/

If you’re experiencing DV—please explore the resources below using a device that your abuser cannot monitor.

U.S. Resources

• National Domestic Violence Hotline
  24/7 confidential support via phone (800-799-7233), text (“START” to 88788), and online chat. Offers safety planning, & more.
• DomesticShelters.org
  Searchable database of over 3,000 shelters and programs across the U.S. & Canada.
• National Resource Center on Domestic Violence (NRCDV)
  Offers training, technical assistance, and policy advocacy.
• Office on Violence Against Women (OVW)
  U.S. Department of Justice site with links to state coalitions, tribal programs, & national hotlines.
• State-by-State Resource Directory
  From the Office on Women’s Health—clickable map of DV coalitions & services in every U.S. state/territory.

Global Resources

• NO MORE Global Directory
  A comprehensive international directory of DV services in nearly every UN-recognized country.
• Hot Peach Pages
  Offers DV information & hotline listings in over 110 languages.
• Global Network of Women’s Shelters
  Connects shelters worldwide for advocates/survivors globally.
• Pathways to Safety International
  Tailored support for Americans experiencing abuse while abroad

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

In this deeply personal and unflinchingly honest episode, Tressa will unravel the tragedy at the heart of a Canadian family’s devastation... and the sprawling system failures behind it. From ignored cries for help to institutional silence, and the high cost of unchecked trauma, we examine the forces that failed Lionel Desmond—and the loved ones who paid the price.

This is not just a story about one man. It's about the machinery that protects itself, the cracks in our support systems, the emotional warfare military families face, and the generational cost of doing nothing.

If you’ve ever wondered what trauma looks like when it isn’t treated—or what silence sounds like when it's systemic—this episode is for you. Listen with care.

🔗 Primary Sources on the Lionel Desmond Inquiry and Travis Decker

• Desmond Fatality Inquiry – Official Website: Includes the full final report, recommendations, witness list, and background on the inquiry.
• CBC News: The System Failed Lionel Desmond and His Family: In-depth reporting on the inquiry’s findings and systemic failures.
• Global News: Final Report of the Desmond Inquiry Released: Overview of the inquiry’s timeline, delays, and key conclusions.
• 📰 Travis Decker Sought Mental Health Counseling 2 Weeks Before Daughter Murders – This piece provides additional context on Decker’s visit to Bates Counseling and includes powerful commentary from both providers about the systemic gaps that left him—and many others—without adequate support.

🧠 Mental Health Treatment Resources

• Stella Center – Official Website
  Offers cutting-edge treatments for PTSD, anxiety, depression, and traumatic brain injury, including Stellate Ganglion Block (SGB), ketamine infusion therapy, TMS, and more. Over 20 locations across the U.S.

📚 Books by Dr. Shauna “Doc” Springer

📘 WARRIOR: How to Support Those Who Protect Us
A powerful exploration of the emotional and psychological challenges faced by military personnel and first responders. It offers insights into how we can better support those who serve.
📗 BEYOND THE MILITARY: A Leader’s Handbook for Warrior Reintegration (co-authored with Jason Roncoroni)
This comprehensive guide addresses the psychological, cultural, and relational aspects of transitioning from military to civilian life.
📕 RELENTLESS COURAGE: Winning the Battle Against Frontline Trauma (co-authored with Sgt. Michael Sugrue)
A deep dive into the trauma experienced by law enforcement officers, offering a path to healing and resilience.

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

**NSFW**

In this episode, Tressa delves into the trial of Jordan Henning, exposing the ways Ashley Henning was failed by the system.

We’ve dissected the crime, unraveled the investigation, and now, we step into the heart of the courtroom drama—examining the testimonies, the verdict, its repercussions, and the lasting impact of this tragedy. What was happening behind the scenes with the prosecution and jury? What secrets was Jordan Henning hiding? And how did Tressa become entangled in this case in the hopes of exposing Jordan? As we reflect on what the prosecution overlooked, we’re left questioning whether justice was intentionally disregarded—or how things could have taken a different turn.

John Williams victim impact video exposing Jordan Henning:

'You Are A Disgrace': Ashley Henning's Cousin Addresses Jordan | Court TV Video

TWTDNH is a truth-telling podcast on domestic violence, trauma, and systemic injustice. If you’ve survived abuse, loss, or institutional neglect—or work in these spaces—we’re seeking collaborators and experts to help amplify unheard voices. 📧 healingwounds13@gmail.com

In part one of this gripping episode, we unravel the shocking case of Jordan Henning, who murdered his wife, Ashley Henning. Tressa uncovers how an anonymous source handed her explosive evidence that the trial and media did not expose—revealing Jordan’s dark secrets and double life.

Ashley, a devoted mother and beloved woman, endured years of deception and abuse at the hands of her husband. But on June 26, 2023—her 37th birthday celebration—everything came to a devastating end. As Jordan’s aggression escalated, Ashley desperately tried to calm him and protect her children. Instead, his need for control led to her brutal murder, captured on the family's Nest camera system.

Jordan fled the scene, weaving a web of lies to conceal the truth. At trial, his defense team pushed outrageous claims while the prosecution struggled, failing to secure the justice Ashley deserved. This raises a troubling question: Was this merely a failure of the Commonwealth of Kentucky, or was something more insidious—like an underlying bias—at play?

Sources for today's episode:

• Court TV – Covers the trial, sentencing, and key evidence, including Nest camera footage and witness testimony.
• Daily Mail – Details Jordan’s defense, his claims of abuse, and the shocking security footage capturing the murder.

Book discussed:

Bancroft, L. (2002). Why does he do that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men. Berkley Books. Available on platforms like Amazon and Goodreads.