💛 “Have you been making more withdrawals than deposits lately?” - SEPTEMBER 2025 Marriage Monthly

In this month’s episode of Marriage Monthly, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your marriage is like a bank account. Every word, action, and attitude is either a deposit that builds connection—or a withdrawal that creates distance.

Whether you’re feeling drained or full of love, this episode will help you become more intentional about the way you invest in your spouse. Through laughs, vulnerable stories, and practical encouragement, we’ll explore how to reset the balance and love generously, just as Christ has loved us.

🧠 Discover:

• What counts as a relational “deposit” or “withdrawal”
• How unmet expectations can silently erode intimacy
• The biblical connection between forgiveness and fullness
• Why speaking the truth in love matters
• How your love language shapes your emotional “balance”
• Why the source of your deposits must be the Lord
• What to do when you feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Ephesians 4:2–3
• Ephesians 4:15
• Ephesians 4:26–27
• Ephesians 4:29
• Ephesians 4:32

💬 Question:
What’s one deposit you can intentionally make into your marriage this week?

📣 Call to Action:
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📝 Leave a comment with how you’ll apply today’s message!

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🎙️ 42 Years Strong — The Secrets to Building a Marriage That Lasts

What does it take to build a marriage that stands the test of time — through addiction, recovery, dreams, disappointments, and God’s redemption? In this powerful Marriage Monthly episode, Gabe and Alyssa sit down with Steve and Julia Jordan, who share their 42-year journey of building a life together.

From meeting at age 8, to surviving deep valleys of bitterness and alcoholism, to seeing God restore their relationship and bless them with a dream home they now use for ministry — this conversation is filled with real, hard-earned wisdom for couples in every season.

Discover:

• Why keeping Jesus at the center changes everything
• How to survive and heal after deep wounds in marriage
• The role of forgiveness — for your spouse and yourself
• How your greatest trials can become your greatest ministry
• The story of building a dream home as a couple and using it for God’s purposes
• Practical encouragement for couples in dark seasons

Steve and Julia’s testimony is living proof that surrender, humility, and faith can turn the hardest chapters into the most beautiful stories.

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Proverbs 3:5–6
• Psalm 127:1
• Jeremiah 29:11

💬 Question for you:

What’s one step you can take this week to strengthen the foundation of your marriage?

✅ Call to Action:

Like & subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement!

Leave a comment sharing how you’ve seen God restore something broken in your marriage.

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🎉 30 years of marriage! In this special anniversary episode, we’re recording from the King George Hotel in San Francisco, where it all began. From sweaty wedding dresses to surprise flowers, we’re diving deep into why celebration is essential in every season of marriage.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in routine, discouraged in your relationship, or just needed a reminder to smile more together—this episode is for you. Let’s talk about why celebrating your spouse might just be the missing piece to a joyful, long-lasting marriage.

💛 Marriage started with a celebration—let’s keep it going.

Discover:

• Why celebration strengthens your connection
• The power of cheering each other on
• How to support your spouse’s passions
• Creating traditions of gratitude in your home
• Resetting the tone of your relationship with simple moments
• What research says about celebrating wins in marriage
• The spiritual side of honoring your spouse

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice.”
• Romans 12:10 – “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”
• 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – “Be joyful always…”
• Galatians 5:13 – “Serve one another humbly in love.”
• Proverbs 17:22 – “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”
• John 10:10 – “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy…”

💬 Question for You:
What’s one small way you can celebrate your spouse this week?

✨ Call to Action:
Like 👍, comment 💬, and subscribe 🔔 for more faith-filled encouragement to strengthen your marriage!
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“Why do we keep doing this?”
That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage.

In this month’s episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we’ve accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns.

💬 Drawing from personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-earned lessons from nearly 30 years of marriage, we explore how couples can rewrite their story—together.

📖 Key Scripture:
Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

💡 Discover:

• How to recognize patterns that are holding your marriage back
• Breaking generational cycles of addiction, dysfunction, and trauma
• The link between emotional safety and long-term satisfaction
• Practical tools for spiritual connection and mental renewal
• The power of one bold step toward change
• King Josiah’s legacy of transformation and how it applies today

🎯 Key Takeaways:

• Every couple inherits patterns—some helpful, some harmful
• Defining your vision for your marriage is the first step
• Breaking a cycle takes awareness, agreement, and aligned action
• Community and spiritual connection are essential in the process
• One decision can start a ripple of healing for future generations

🙋‍♂️ Question for you:
What’s one cycle in your marriage or family history that needs to end—and what’s one small step you can take this week?

👉 Like & subscribe for more faith-filled marriage conversations!
💬 Leave a comment: What’s one cycle you’re breaking in your marriage?
🔗 Share this with a friend who needs encouragement today.

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Will our marriage really last? That’s the question most couples ask—whether they say it out loud or not. In this powerful episode, we unpack the top predictor of marital success based on brand-new research shared by Les Parrott at a recent marriage conference: perceived partner commitment. What does that mean, and how do you build it?

We break down the difference between commitment busters and commitment builders—everything from separate bank accounts and secrets to road trips and red lipstick moments. We share insights from 30 years of marriage, including personal stories, scriptures, and the hard lessons we’ve learned the long way. Whether you’re just starting out or decades in, this episode will encourage you to build the kind of marriage that lasts—one built on intentional, everyday commitment.

💡 Discover:

• What “perceived partner commitment” actually means
• The marriage triangle: passion, intimacy, and commitment
• 6 commitment busters to watch out for
• 8 commitment builders that create lasting love
• How to protect your marriage from separation, secrets, and criticism
• How shared memories, empathy, and sacrifice keep couples close

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:
Mark 10:7–9 – “Let no one split them apart.”
Philippians 2:3–5 – “Be humble…have the same attitude as Christ.”

💭 Question for You:
What’s one way you can show your spouse your commitment this week?

❤️ Call to Action:
Leave a comment and let us know how you’re building commitment in your marriage. Like & subscribe for more episodes to help your marriage grow strong!

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In this episode, we’re joined by our friends, Steve and Lori Barker, to talk about the challenges of balancing a busy marriage and life filled with parenting, careers, and everything in between. From juggling schedules, prioritizing each other, to how they make time for their dreams and personal growth, Steve and Lori share their insights and experiences on maintaining a strong relationship through life’s busiest seasons. We also dive into how they integrate their faith and stay connected through it all, offering practical advice on how to stay grounded and emotionally healthy while managing a hectic life. Whether you’re parenting, in a busy season, or just trying to figure out how to prioritize your spouse while managing the chaos, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable stories.

Key Points:

• Strategies for balancing marriage, kids, and busy careers
• How to keep your marriage strong in the midst of life’s demands
• The importance of being a cheerleader for your spouse’s dreams
• How setting boundaries, like family schedules and tech-free time, can bring peace
• Practical ways to stay emotionally connected while parenting and working
• The value of prayer and supporting each other through challenges

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Join us as we recap our powerful marriage retreat! We dive deep into the four essential habits for a thriving marriage, inspired by Ted Lowe's book, 'Your Best Us.' Discover practical tips on having 'serious fun,' prioritizing God in your relationship, cultivating love and respect, and practicing your promises. Learn how to overcome common marriage barriers like busyness, seriousness, and the challenges of raising children. We also discuss the importance of date nights, intimacy, and open communication. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your bond and build a God-centered marriage.

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Key Points:

• Recap of the marriage retreat and key takeaways from 'Your Best Us'
• The importance of having 'serious fun' and overcoming fun barriers
• Putting God first in your marriage and the power of faith
• Cultivating love and respect through effective communication
• Practicing your promises and building a lasting commitment
• Practical tips for date nights, intimacy, and shared goals

Resources Mentioned:

• 'Your Best Us' by Ted Lowe
• 'Love and Respect' by Emerson Eggerich
• Proverbs 5
• Mark 12:30
• Ephesians 4:29

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Comment your answer! Questions:

• What are some 'fun barriers' you've faced in your marriage, and how did you overcome them?
• How do you prioritize God in your relationship?
• What are some ways you and your spouse practice your promises to one another?
• What are your favorite ways to have fun with your spouse?

Happy Valentine’s! Whether you’re all about the romance or you think it’s just another day, we’re here to give you 14 creative ways to show love to your spouse—not just on Valentine’s Day, but all year round!

There are so many things in life that can distract us from prioritizing our spouse, so we’re sharing practical, fun, and flirty ways to keep the love alive in your marriage. From love notes and surprise treats to sexy texts and spontaneous date nights, these simple yet powerful gestures can help deepen your connection and bring you closer together.

💬 Key Points Discussed:
✅ Why saying “I love you” and showing it matters
✅ 14 creative ways to keep the spark alive
✅ How small gestures (like sticky notes & long kisses) make a big impact
✅ The power of intentional touch, flirtation, and planned dates
✅ How to prioritize your spouse daily—even in a busy life

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – Love is patient, love is kind…
• Ephesians 5:25 – Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church…
• Proverbs 5:18-19 – Rejoice in the wife of your youth…

💬 Question:
Which of these 14 ways do you already practice? Which one do you want to try next? Let us know in the comments!

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