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Ep 157 Description:

"In birth, I should also trust myself more than I would trust the doctors or anybody else." —Augusta Sofija Lagauske

What if birth could be powerful, calm, and even ecstatic—no matter what you’ve heard? If you’re tired of fear-based stories and want to believe in your body’s strength, this episode is for you. It’s time to rethink what’s possible in the hospital.

Augusta Sofija Lagauske, a Lithuanian jeweler, shares how a tough pregnancy and a sea of doubts led her to trust her intuition and prepare for an empowering hospital birth. Her story isn’t just about luck—it’s about mindset, support, and reclaiming your experience. Now, Augusta is on a mission to help others find confidence and pleasure in birth, no matter their circumstances.

Hit play to hear Augusta’s honest journey, from bed rest to a fast, empowering water birth, and learn how she used relaxation, the Bradley Method, and self-trust to transform her experience. You’ll get real talk on overcoming fear, building a support team, and practical tips for making birth your own.

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Episode Highlights:

02:22 Meet Augusta: From Active Athlete to Bed Rest

07:00 Overcoming Setbacks and Reclaiming Your Body

09:30 Preparing for a Positive Birth

12:30 A New Perspective: Orgasmic Birth

16:07 Mind Preparation: Meditation, Nature, and Trust

18:00 Labor to Hospital Birth: Trusting the Process

26:00 The Birth: Fast, Intense, Empowering

29:22 Advice: Facing Fear and Finding Support

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Ep 156 Description:

"You birth the way you live. This is key." —Anna Lundqvist

What if the very thing you’ve been taught to fear about birth could actually be powerful—even pleasurable? If you’ve ever wondered why your desires for a calm, connected, or sacred birth feel "too much" or "too radical," you’re not alone. In a world where women are told to numb, silence, and surrender their bodies to systems, reclaiming joy in birth isn’t just brave—it’s revolutionary and rebellious.

Anna Lundqvist is a former midwife and the founder of Sacred Birth International, where she mentors birth workers and empowers women through education on physiological, sacred birth. With decades of experience witnessing both clinical and intuitive birth practices, Anna offers grounded, spiritual insight into how women can birth with sovereignty and sensuality. Her global perspective and deep reverence for the feminine make this episode a transformative deep dive into what’s possible when we invite pleasure into the birth space.

Ready to challenge the narrative and rewrite your own birth story? Hit play to hear how reclaiming pleasure, presence, and power can change everything—from the way you prepare for birth to the way you meet your baby. Expect real talk on orgasmic birth, embodied wisdom, the mind-body connection, and why choosing pleasure is the most rebellious act of all.

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Episode Highlights:

02:12 Why Choosing Pleasure is a Rebellious Act

04:46 Who Can Experience Orgasmic Birth

08:30 Intimacy in the Birthing Room

13:00 Practitioners’ Perspective

19:19 Tools for Meeting the Intensity of Labor

21:50 Your Body is Made to Do This!

Resources:

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Ep 155 Description:

"Let this journey teach you to smile at discomfort and lovingly let go of all you know, especially of all you know yourself to be." —Lailana Victoria

What if birth is about more than just the physical body? We often focus on the medical details, but the journey to motherhood involves a profound, energetic, and spiritual transformation that is too often ignored, especially for women carrying unspoken wounds.

Our guest, Lailana Victoria, is a bridge between worlds. Her own journey into parenthood ignited her mission as a doula and rootworker to bring sacredness back to the birth space and give voice to these unspoken stories of metamorphosis.

Press play as Debra and Lailana discuss the manifestation process of a soul, the psychedelic nature of birth and parenting, how to transform the pain of shedding your identity into power and pleasure, the deep connection between sexuality and spirituality, and why evolution is the biggest orgasm.

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Episode Highlights:

03:14 Lailana’s Pregnancy Journey

06:50 Preparation and Birth Experience

12:49 The Impact of Ancestral Trauma

17:13 Shedding Identity and Embracing Transformation

20:21 The Psychedilic Nature of Pregnancy and Parenting

24:59 Evolution is the Biggest Orgasm

28:12 Never Hide from Love

Resources:

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Ep 154 Description:

“Don't settle for second best when it comes to your birth. Create the birth you deeply desire, because these memories will stay with you far longer than any trip ever could, and this will have an impact on both you and your baby's emotional and physical health and well-being.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro

What if preparing for birth could feel empowering and even joyful—rather than overwhelming or scary? If you’ve felt lost in a sea of advice and pressure, you deserve a fresh perspective—one that puts your comfort, choices, and confidence first.

In this episode, Debra talks about what it means to truly feel seen, heard, and ready for one of life’s biggest moments. Hit play to hear Debra’s five gentle steps to a pleasurable, loving birth, plus honest stories and practical tips to help you feel strong, prepared, and truly excited for your birth.

Grab your free companion guide, 25 Gentle Steps to a Pleasurable, Loving Birth and tune in for this inspiring episode!

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Episode Highlights:

02:50 Tip 1: Comfort Tools

04:51 Tip 2: Journaling

07:20 Tip 3: Education is Power

10:04 Tip 4: Notice How You Feel About Your Birth Place Options

11:35 Tip 5: Visualize Your Support Team

15:29 Learn More: 25 Gentle Steps to a Pleasurable, Loving Birth

Resources:

💗 Free Guide— 25 Gentle Tips for a Pleasurable, Loving Birth

💗A pleasurable, safe birth begins with quality, positive childbirth education. Join Debra’s online childbirth class, Pleasurable Birth Essentials: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials

Ep 153 Description:

“Birth is something you need to train for. I don't think it's very thoughtful to just go with the flow.” —Mina Skandari

More and more women are choosing natural birth these days. It's a powerful shift as mothers reclaim the beauty and strength within. When we empower women to trust their bodies, the transformation is truly profound.

Mina Skandari, an award-winning author, the 2021 Young Inspirational Woman of the Year, and the founder of the Skandari Foundation is a passionate advocate for women's empowerment during pregnancy and childbirth. Her personal journey inspires others to approach birth with confidence and joy.

Tune in as Debra and Mina explore the power of a positive mindset, preparation, and trusting one's body in achieving empowering birth experiences, Mina’s advice for expecting mothers, how orgasmic birth can help mothers feel connected to their natural instincts, Mina’s journey to becoming a doula, and more.

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Episode Highlights:

02:13 Mina’s First Birth

10:02 Mina’s Second Birth and Home Birth Dream

20:04 Advice for Expecting Mothers

23:11 Orgasmic Birth Defined

Resources:

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Ep 152 Description:

"It didn't feel like it was ever bigger than me because it was coming from me. It was hard, but I could do it, which was such a powerful feeling to have afterwards, where I was like, ‘oh my god, like I could do anything!’" —Estefany Angeles

What if birth could feel less like a medical procedure and more like a love story?

So many parents are told to brace for pain, control their bodies, and power through—but what if the journey could be sacred, intimate, and even blissful? It’s time to challenge the stories we’ve inherited and reclaim birth as an experience of connection, power, and pleasure.

Drawing from her Dominican roots and her own transformative birth experiences, Birth A Mi Manera Founder, Estefany Angeles, blends cultural tradition with evidence-based care to help families embrace autonomy and joy in childbirth. Her perspective brings a rare and refreshing vision of birth that celebrates both the body’s wisdom and the soul’s longing for connection.

Hit play to hear practical ways to invite pleasure, intimacy, and presence into labor, reclaim cultural wisdom, and weave joy into childbirth education and doula care.

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Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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Episode Highlights:

03:28 Estefany’s First Birth Journey

18:33 Second Birth: Pandemic and Personal Growth

22:54 Third Birth: Intentionality and Community Support

39:20 Postpartum Reflections

Resources:

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Ep 151 Description:

"The more you stay curious, the more you grow and evolve, and that's going to bring you to your best self. So always stay curious." —Simone Toomer

Ever felt like the system doesn’t believe you know your own body—or your own birth? You prepare, you research, you show up ready to advocate for yourself… only to face doubt, resistance, and voices that try to speak louder than your own. This episode dives deep into how you can reclaim your power, lean on community, and birth on your own terms—even when the world pushes back.

Simone Toomer is a birth and postpartum doula, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, childbirth educator, sleep educator, and a fierce advocate for birthing autonomy. Drawing from her own experiences as a young Black mother navigating both hospital and home births, Simone brings raw honesty and lived wisdom to the conversation. Her work is rooted in community care, equity, and the belief that every birthing person has the right to be heard, supported, and fully informed.

Tune in to hear a candid, soul-stirring conversation about the sacred power of sister circles, the courage to challenge systemic barriers, and the beauty of birthing with confidence. Hit play now and discover what it means to heal in community, stay curious, and truly reclaim your body and birth.

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Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

03:03 Simone’s First Pregnancy and Birth

06:38 Navigating Resistance and Preparing for Labor

10:02 Postpartum and Becoming a Doula

14:37 Simone’s Second Pregnancy and Birth

23:26 Postpartum Anxiety

26:15 Reclaiming Birth and the Importance of Community

Connect with Simone:

Simone Toomer is a birth and postpartum doula, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), childbirth educator, sleep educator, and passionate advocate for birthing autonomy and community care. Drawing from her own experiences as a young Black mother navigating both hospital and home births, Simone empowers families with knowledge, confidence, and compassionate support. Her work centers on equity, healing, and the belief that every birthing person deserves to feel seen, heard, and fully supported throughout their journey.

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