We made it to a second episode (Not even we thought we'd make it this far). In today's Episode Ari and I talk about fake, or situational, friends... Are they good? Bad? Why do we have them? Is it Instagram culture, or just a rampant fear of loneliness. Listen to the podcast and maybe we'll answer your questions (We probably wont :)

sources cited:

Carmichael, Cheryl L., Harry T. Reis, and Paul R. Duberstein. “In Your 20s It’s Quantity, in Your 30s It’s Quality: The Prognostic Value of Social Activity across 30 Years of Adulthood.” Psychology and Aging 30, no. 1 (2015): 95–105. https://doi.org/10.1037/pag0000014.

Education, William Deresiewicz, From The Chronicle Of Higher. “Faux Friendship – Utne.” Accessed February 10, 2024. https://www.utne.com/mind-and-body/faux-friendship-facebook/.

Weeks, Molly Stroud. “Gender, Loneliness, and Friendship Satisfaction in Early Adulthood: The Role of Friendship Features and Friendship Expectations,” 2013. https://hdl.handle.net/10161/8076.

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"Aren't you going to text him back?"

"No, I'm going to wait three hours so I don't look desperate"

Waiting to text back, double texting, leaving people on read... in today's episode Ari and I talk about texting etiquette. Is it childish and annoying, or does it serve a purpose... and why is waiting to respond so goddamn effective??

If you want to review some of the studies we reference in our podcast, they're linked here below:

Camerini, Anne-Linda, et al. “Exploring the Emotional Experience During Instant Messaging Among Young Adults: An Experimental Study Incorporating Physiological Correlates of Arousal.” Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 13, Apr. 2022, p. 840845, https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.840845.

Döring, Nicola, and Sandra Pöschl. Nonverbal Cues in Mobile Phone Text Messages: The Effects of Chronemics and Proxemics.

Halley, Catherine. “Chronemics and the Nonverbal Language of Time.” JSTOR Daily, 13 Apr. 2022, https://daily.jstor.org/chronemics-and-the-nonverbal-language-of-time/.

Holtzman, Susan, et al. “Long-Distance Texting: Text Messaging Is Linked with Higher Relationship Satisfaction in Long-Distance Relationships.” Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, vol. 38, no. 12, 2021, pp. 3543–65, https://doi.org/10.1177/02654075211043296.

“It’s Complicated: Our Relationship with Texting.” Https://Www.Apa.Org, https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2018/08/relationship-texting. Accessed 27 Jan. 2024.

Tan, Kenneth, et al. “Seeking and Ensuring Interdependence: Desiring Commitment and the Strategic Initiation and Maintenance of Close Relationships.” Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, vol. 46, no. 1, 2020, pp. 36–50, https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167219841633.

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