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What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience.

I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same.

In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose.

Here’s what we talk about in this episode:

• How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days)
• What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships
• The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity
• Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation
• The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time
• The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them
• Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator
• An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!)
• Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out

By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world.

Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker.

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Have you ever thought, “I don’t have any stories to tell,” or wondered where people get those everyday stories that connect so powerfully with their audience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive headfirst into that question and show you exactly how to spot and share the remarkable stories already hiding in your daily life.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, and as a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I know first-hand how easy it is to believe your life doesn’t serve up “epic” stories worth sharing. But the truth I’ve learned through both experience and science is that your best stories are simpler, closer, and more relatable than you ever imagined. Today, we’re flipping the script on storytelling by focusing on the small, ordinary moments that hold hidden magic when you know how to uncover and frame them.

This episode is just me no guest because I wanted to dig deep into my favorite topic: the practical art of everyday storytelling. I share personal experiences (including my own mishaps and embarrassments), research findings, and creative exercises you can use right away.

Here’s what we tackle together:

• Why chasing after “epic” stories is a waste of energy, and how your camera roll, junk drawer, and overheard conversations are loaded with potential story material.
• The science behind why small, vulnerable stories are more memorable and create stronger audience connection than polished, fact-based presentations.
• My three-step rule for quickly turning small disasters (like burning your grilled cheese or missing the bus) into engaging stories anyone can relate to.
• How to turn random objects (think broken watches or lone hairpins) into compelling story seeds using a practical three-step exercise.
• Techniques for mining everyday dialogue like coffee shop chatter for real, emotional narrative arcs, and how to practice capturing those authentic moments.
• Why sharing imperfect, unpolished stories is so powerful (spoiler: it helps your listeners remember and see themselves in your story).
• A practical challenge for you: pick five ordinary things over the next week and use the three-step micro story method to discover just how many stories your “ordinary” life truly holds.

If you’ve ever felt stuck when someone told you to “just tell a story,” by the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and most importantly, the mindset to pull stories from even the most unremarkable corners of your day. Remember, your daily life is full of story prompts just waiting to be told, and those stories are your greatest assets as a communicator and connector.

Don’t forget to grab your free ebook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for joining me, your voice truly has the power to change the world. See you next time!

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Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to stand out, move up quickly in your career, and speak confidently, especially when you’re just starting out? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into the real skills that make the difference between simply doing the work and truly excelling–skills that aren’t always on the job description, but that employers look for and reward.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a former college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping people build the soft skills that lead to real results, whether in storytelling, public speaking, or just showing up with more confidence. This week, I’m thrilled to speak with Brianne Rush, the founder of The Independence Lab. Brianne is a powerhouse when it comes to helping Gen Z women make the leap from college to career. She rose through the ranks incredibly quickly from intern to managing editor in a year, and employee to VP in four years by learning to decode workplace dynamics, advocate for herself, and, most importantly, overcome her fear of public speaking.

We kick off the conversation with Brianne’s story—how she knew from the age of eight that she wanted to move to New York to be a journalist, and what it felt like to finally live that dream. Brianne shares what inspired her to choose New York, how her experiences in dance and performance influenced her, and why total immersion in a city full of energy was essential to her identity and early career. She explains the lessons she learned—not just about working hard and climbing the ranks, but about truly living in the moment and building genuine connections, both professional and personal.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Brianne’s journey from dreaming of journalism in New York to landing and advancing in her dream role
• The importance of immersion, living in the moment, and building meaningful experiences early in your career
• Lessons about working hard, networking, and creating opportunities for yourself—even when you start at the bottom
• What employers are really looking for in hiring today: the power of soft skills like passion, curiosity, proactivity, and communication
• How to stand out authentically in interviews—using storytelling, personalized cover letters, and honest conversation instead of relying only on AI
• Practical strategies to display confidence, curiosity, and proactivity in every step of your job search
• Brianne’s advice on career advancement: emotional intelligence skills, self-awareness, handling setbacks, and the value of progress over perfection
• Navigating boundaries, learning to say no, and prioritizing projects that advance your career (with a special focus on women in the workplace)
• Gen Z’s growing focus on self-knowledge, life transitions, and ditching outdated hustle culture for a healthier approach
• The mission behind The Independence Lab and actionable resources for building emotional intelligence

If you’re looking for real advice on how to marry soft skills and confidence with actionable career moves, this episode is for you—whether you’re early in your career, managing the next big transition, or helping others find their way. Be sure to check out Brianne’s free resources and connect with us to keep leveling up your communicat

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What does it really take to transform your nerves into confidence when speaking in front of an audience—no matter how big or small? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I take you behind the scenes of my own speaking journey, sharing raw stories, practical takeaways, and the coaching that helped me grow in unexpected ways.

This week, I pull back the curtain on my experience as part of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. After years of preaching the importance of lifelong learning, I put myself on the line—joining the team, earning advanced presenter certifications, and even making a run at standing on stage at the International Maxwell Conference. Today, I want to show you what growth looks like up close, and how vital it is to seek feedback, embrace vulnerability, and focus on progress over perfection.

To help me along this journey, I worked closely with Roddy Galbraith, none other than John Maxwell’s own speaking coach. If you’ve ever wondered whether even the best need coaching, this episode is for you. Roddy pushed me to look deeper at my message, delivery, and what I genuinely wanted my audience to walk away with. Together, we honed a simple three-minute story—one I’d performed more than a hundred times—transforming it from a personal anecdote into a powerful teaching tool.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• My own public speaking horror story—the first time I had to speak in college and what happened when anxiety got the best of me
• How that one embarrassing moment became the foundation for my growth as a speaker and coach
• The grueling, but rewarding, process of preparing for the Maxwell International Conference, and what it felt like to just miss the finals by two seconds
• A step-by-step look at the evolution of my speech—from the initial draft, through Roddy’s constructive feedback, to the final live version
• The importance of coaching and why even experienced speakers need fresh outside perspectives
• Strategies to shift your mindset from fearing the worst to aiming for the best every time you get up to speak
• Why perfection isn’t relatable, but vulnerability, honesty, and even a little messiness are
• How to take that next step in your own speaking journey—with tools and encouragement for breaking through nerves and building unshakable confidence

If you’re ever wondered how to face your speaking fears, connect more authentically, or grow past setbacks, you'll find tools and inspiration in this episode. Remember, your voice truly does have the power to change your world—but only if you choose to use it.

Thank you, as always, for supporting Speaking with Confidence. If you’re looking to keep leveling up, don’t forget to grab the free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Progress, not perfection—that’s our north star. Tune in and let’s keep moving forward, together.

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Have you ever wondered how living and working abroad can radically transform not just your communication style, but also the way you guide and lead others? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the world of cross-cultural communication, public speaking, and storytelling with our guest Rebecca Williams, a true globetrotter and expert public speaking coach who has worked with everyone from Stanford MBAs to teams at Google, Meta, and Netflix.

Hey, I’m Tim Newman, and on this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting practical about what it really takes to show up with confidence and credibility in any communication setting whether that’s on stage, in a boardroom, or even navigating the cultural nuances of a meeting overseas.

Rebecca and I kick things off by discussing her journey from Wisconsin to living in places like Germany, Japan, Australia, Nepal, Spain, Portugal, and Mexico. She shares how her international experiences have planted humility and empathy at the heart of her coaching approach, reminding us that communication is never one-size-fits-all. In many countries, people speak two, three, or even more languages just to participate professionally, and often it’s those little cultural cues, not just words that make or break your message.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• How living abroad shaped Rebecca’s empathetic, multicultural approach to coaching communication
• What it means to be a “guest star” in the country of your audience
• How to avoid cross-cultural blunders and build trust across cultures
• The universal challenge of negative self-talk during public speaking and how to work through it
• Rebecca’s “First Five Formula” for nailing your presentation opening
• How specificity makes stories stick and how to find the right stories within your own life
• The role of humor (and how even non-comedians can use it effectively)
• The current and future impact of AI on communication, public speaking, and storytelling
• Insights into Rebecca’s book “Presenting. Presenting.” and why it was designed as an interview
• Where to connect with Rebecca and access her resources

This episode is jam-packed with real stories, practical frameworks, and a refreshing perspective on developing your own authentic voice whether you’re addressing an international audience or conquering your own internal doubts. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed this conversation with Rebecca!

Don’t forget to grab Rebecca’s book, check out more resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and connect with us on LinkedIn or Instagram. Your voice really does have the power to change the world. Let's keep showing up and speaking with confidence.

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Have you ever frozen under pressure when someone in your audience throws a tough, even hostile question your way? You’re not alone, and this episode is all about teaching you how to handle those moments with confidence and composure.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence. I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping you build the soft skills that spark real progress in your career and life, especially the ability to stay cool, clear, and credible in the spotlight. Whether you breeze through presentations or find public speaking downright nerve-wracking, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you face even the most challenging moments on stage.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

• The 3-step credibility playbook for tough questions (Acknowledge, Provide Evidence, Call to Action)
• Aligning with the ABCD method and why defensive reactions hurt more than they help
• Using evidence and social proof to handle pushback and skeptical questions
• Reading audience motives and managing both “genuine” and “maddening” challengers
• Body language moves that signal control and calm
• How to use empathy, validation, and audience engagement to redirect heated moments
• “Sleight of mouth” reframing tactics and building your own objection-response scripts
• Scripted responses for handling multi-part and high-pressure questions with authority
• Turning objections into opportunities and building forward momentum

Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Pick just one strategy whether ABCD, a validation line, or the quick reframe and rehearse it for five minutes so you’re ready when the moment comes. Remember, confidence in those pressure-packed moments isn’t about never feeling nerves; it’s about being prepared enough to choose your response with authority.

For even more resources, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook (“The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”) or to sign up for our Formula for Public Speaking training. Your voice is your power, thanks for joining me on this journey. Until next time, keep practicing and keep speaking with confidence!

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How can young adults overcome overwhelm and start communicating with genuine confidence in today’s digital age?

Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Nick Batchelder—a 21-year-old author, podcaster, and speaker who’s committed to making sure fewer people reach their 30s saying, “I wish I would have done more in my 20s.” Nick brings a rare peer perspective to personal development, focusing on the unique challenges and strengths of people in their 20s and early 30s. He’s already written a book, built a growing podcast, and spoken to countless young adults about their hurdles with confidence, communication, and taking action. Nick’s insights aren’t just theoretical—they’re born from real, relatable experience.

In our conversation, Nick and I explore a topic central to both of our work: what’s really holding back Gen Z and young millennials when it comes to building confidence in communication? Why—despite being the most connected and entrepreneurial generation—are so many young people struggling with the basics of interpersonal interaction? Nick shares what he sees on the frontline with his peers, from the overwhelming abundance of choices in the digital era to the comfort (and isolation) that comes with virtual living. We candidly talk about why it’s now easier than ever to avoid in-person interactions, and how that avoidance is quietly eroding essential soft skills.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• The impact of digital life on interpersonal communication skills in young adults
• Why overwhelm from too many choices leads to avoidance and inaction
• The difference between being aware of what needs improvement and actually taking steps to improve
• How to use playfulness and improv to rapidly develop communication confidence
• Avoiding the trap of memorized scripts, and why thinking on your feet builds more resilience
• The real reasons young adults don’t act on the changes they know they need fear, laziness, and lack of structure
• How generational differences in upbringing (free play vs. constant supervision) impact adult communication and confidence
• Nick’s experiences with peer feedback, criticism, and staying grounded amid public scrutiny
• The double-edged sword of social media curation and self-image
• Tangible ways to make networking less intimidating even for introverts
• The critical importance of being present and genuinely engaged in building relationships
• How self-awareness makes connecting with others easier (and why it’s okay not to connect with everyone)
• The role that reading and being a role model for learning plays in personal growth
• Why it’s normal for growth to be uneven progress over perfection every time

If you want more from Nick, you can find his book, Crush Your 20s, on Amazon, or check out his podcast, Building the Blueprint, on Spotify and YouTube. And of course, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for more resources including a free eBook and details about our public speaking course.

Thanks for listening and remember, your voice really does have the power to change the world.

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Have you ever completely blanked out during a presentation or felt your confidence collapse in front of an audience? If so, you’re far from alone and in this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly how to recover from those “crash and burn” public speaking moments and get your confidence back on track.

I’m Tim Newman, and as someone who once threw up before giving my first college presentation, I know firsthand how devastating public speaking anxiety can feel. This week, I’m drawing on both scientific studies and coaching experience to help you move forward from setbacks and rebuild your core presentation skills, one step at a time.

I’m going deep into the mechanics of bouncing back from a public speaking “freeze.” I break down why our brains sometimes fail us under stress, how anxiety is triggered both by internal self-esteem and external factors like the room or audience, and most importantly, what you can do to start the recovery process today.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Understanding why you might suddenly forget your words or lose your flow during a speech and why it’s usually a stress-driven system breakdown rather than a lack of knowledge.
• The five interconnected parts of effective public speaking: content mastery, physical control, audience awareness, emotional regulation, and delivery mechanics.
• Real-world examples of how even highly skilled professionals can “crash,” and the neuroscience behind how adrenaline and panic disrupt your memory.
• How confidence and public speaking ability reinforce one another, plus how environmental factors (like room layout and audience engagement) can shape your anxiety level in real time.
• Practical steps to identify exactly where you tend to stumble using a technique I recommend to all my clients: recording and reviewing your last few talks to pinpoint specific breakdowns.
• The value of gradual, targeted practice to rebuild your skills, including insights from virtual reality training studies that show even small, structured exposures lead to measurable improvement.
• My recommended “exposure ladder” for resetting your confidence: from practicing alone to speaking in front of a small, trusted audience, and then slowly simulating real-life settings.
• An evidence-based way to turn setbacks into learning opportunities using structured reflection, journaling, and a four-step mental reframe to immediately convert mistakes into specific action steps.
• How to design your speech outlines to lower your risk of freezing, and why preparing the opening lines for common questions in Q&A makes a big difference.
• The importance of brief, focused daily practice and getting specific peer feedback to reinforce positive changes and accelerate growth.
• A quick three-day reset challenge you can try right away to get yourself unstuck and moving forward.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com after the show to grab your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and to learn about my full Formula for Public Speaking course.

Remember, your voice matters. With the right approach, you can recover and come back even stronger. Thanks for joining me and I’ll talk to you next time!

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