• 23. The Science of Colour: How Your Outfit Affects Your Career Success
    Jul 9 2025

    Have you ever wondered why you feel more confident in certain colours, or why that navy blazer seems to make client meetings go smoother? There's science behind it and it's not just in your head.

    In this episode, I look at the fascinating world of colour psychology and how you can use it strategically to boost your professional presence.

    You'll discover why certain colours change the brain chemistry of everyone in the room, how to choose colours for different business outcomes and the cultural factors that influence colour perception.

    What you'll learn:

    • The neuroscience behind why colours affect confidence and perception
    • Strategic colour choices for negotiations, presentations and team meetings
    • How to build your own 4-colour professional palette
    • Cultural considerations when working globally
    • Why quality matters more than quantity in your colour choices
    • Practical tips for video calls and seasonal adjustments


    Key takeaways:✓ Navy blue is scientifically proven to be the most trusted colour across cultures✓ Your outfit is having a conversation before you even speak✓ Every colour choice is a strategic choice that can support your goals✓ The shade and saturation of colours matter just as much as the colour itself

    Whether you're preparing for a big presentation, important client meeting or networking event, this episode will transform how you think about getting dressed. You'll never look at your wardrobe the same way again.

    Perfect for: Business professionals, entrepreneurs, and anyone who wants to use psychology to enhance their professional presence and confidence.

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    16 min
  • 22. Why you feel like everyone is watching you (and how to stop)
    Jul 2 2025

    Ever walked into a networking event convinced everyone is judging your outfit, your presence or your every move?

    You're experiencing the "spotlight effect" and you're definitely not alone. In this episode, Clare explores this fascinating psychological phenomenon that makes us overestimate how much others notice our mistakes and awkward moments.

    Discover the science behind why we feel constantly scrutinised, plus five practical strategies for managing self-consciousness in business settings. Clare also introduces "micro-styling for macro-confidence", how small, intentional choices in your appearance can become powerful confidence anchors when that spotlight feeling strikes.

    You'll learn how to shift your perspective, reframe mistakes as connection opportunities and build your own toolkit of meaningful "power pieces" that ground you in challenging situations. The truth? Most people are too busy worrying about themselves to scrutinise you the way you think they are.

    What You'll Learn:

    • The psychology behind the spotlight effect and why it happens
    • Five mental strategies to manage self-consciousness
    • How to use meaningful accessories and clothing as confidence anchors
    • Real world applications for meetings, presentations and networking events
    • Why authenticity trumps perfection every time


    Perfect for anyone who wants to show up confidently in business situations without the constant worry about being judged.

    Find out more about my Style & Confidence Accelerator


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    15 min
  • 21. Why Self-Doubt Costs You Opportunities (And How to Finally Break Free)
    Jun 24 2025

    Ever walked away from an opportunity thinking "what if I had just been brave enough to try"?

    If self-doubt has cost you that promotion or kept you playing small, this episode is for you.

    Discover why your comfort zone is keeping you stuck, the psychology of "strategic discomfort," and how to use your personal style as a confidence tool. You'll learn a practical framework for expanding your comfort zone without overwhelming yourself, plus why every "failure" is actually building your confidence muscle.

    Perfect for you if you've:

    • Let self-doubt talk you out of opportunities you wanted
    • Know you're capable of more but struggle to take action
    • Want practical confidence strategies that actually work

    By the end, you'll have a roadmap for becoming the person who goes after what they want instead of letting fear decide.

    Ready to dive deeper? Learn about my Confidence focused programme: I Am Enough: Confidence Reboot

    Book a FREE call to see what is right for you

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    #confidence #comfortzone #personaldevelopment #selfgrowth #mindset #opportunities #selfdoubt #courage #transformation #confidencebuilding #lifecoach #confidencecoach

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    11 min
  • 20. 7 Steps to take you from self doubt to self belief
    Jun 18 2025

    What would you attempt if you knew you couldn't fail?

    The difference between those who chase their dreams and those who stay stuck often comes down to one thing: self-belief. But an enormous 70% of people struggle with impostor syndrome and self-doubt, even when they're achieving success.

    In this episode, I talk about the psychology of self-belief and give you a roadmap to transform self-doubt into self belief.

    What You'll Discover:

    • The real difference between and self-belief, self efficacy and self esteem
    • Why your brain is wired to focus on failures instead of successes (and how to rewire it)
    • 7 steps to build lasting self-belief from the ground up
    • The 3 biggest self-belief saboteurs that keep high achievers stuck
    • A 30 day challenge to start building your self belief today


    Key Takeaways: Evidence Collection: How to train your brain to notice your wins Challenge Graduation: The smart way to expand your comfort zone Intelligent Failure: Why failing in the right way builds confidence Future Self Visualisation: Programming your mind for success

    Perfect for: Anyone struggling with self-doubt, impostor syndrome or feeling stuck despite their achievements. Whether you're an entrepreneur, creative or professional looking to unlock your potential.


    Don't let self-doubt rob you of the life you're meant to live. Your breakthrough is closer than you think.


    Learn more about my confidence only programme; ⁠I Am Enough: The Confidence Reboot⁠Book a FREE call to discuss what is right for you.


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    #SelfBelief #Confidence #PersonalDevelopment #Psychology #Mindset #ImposterSyndrome #SelfDoubt #GrowthMindset #Success #Motivation #confidencecoach #lifecoach





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    14 min
  • 19. Stand Tall, Dress Smart: How Your Body and Clothes Secretly Control Your Success
    Jun 16 2025

    Did you know that standing in a Wonder Woman pose for just 2 minutes can increase your confidence hormones by 20%?

    Research in embodied cognition reveals that your body isn'tjust expressing your thoughts, it's actually creating them.

    In this episode, I'm sharing fascinating evidence thatproves your posture, clothing and movement are secretly controlling your performance, creativity and success. This is more that looking confident, this is about rewiring your brain through your body.

    What You'll Discover:This episode will give you tips you can use when you preparefor important meetings, presentations, negotiations and creative work. You'll never think about your wardrobe or posture the same way again.

    Perfect for: Entrepreneurs, executives, professionals, creatives and anyone who wants to optimise their mentalperformance using science-backed strategies.

    Find out more - ⁠Style& Confidence Accelerator⁠ Programme

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    #EmbodiedCognition #PowerPosing #BodyLanguage#FashionPsychology #PeakPerformance #Confidence #Success #ExecutivePresence#Mindset #Psychology #Leadership #PersonalDevelopment #Productivity#NeuroscienceOfSuccess

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    17 min
  • E. 18 From Confidence Crash to Comeback: 5 Steps to build resilience
    Jun 4 2025

    We've all been there, that moment when your confidence takes a serious hit. Maybe it was harsh feedback, a rejection, or a setback that left you questioning everything about yourself.

    But what if I told you that a confidence knock could actually be the catalyst for your greatest comeback?

    In this episode, I'm sharing a 5-step framework for transforming any confidence crash into resilience fuel.

    You'll discover why these knocks hit us so hard, how to separate facts from the stories we tell ourselves and a fascinating insight from fashion psychology, how strategic clothing choices can actually accelerate your confidence recovery.

    What You'll Learn:

    • Why confidence crashes feel so devastating and how to break the spiral
    • The 5-step comeback framework that turns setbacks into strength
    • How your clothing can boost your confidence through strategic styling
    • Practical tools to rebuild momentum after any professional or personal knock


    Whether you're recovering from a recent setback or want to build bulletproof resilience for the future, this episode gives you the roadmap to bounce back stronger than ever.

    Ready to fast-track your confidence and resilience? Check out my accelerator programme designed for ambitious people who want to turn setbacks into a setup for success.

    #Resilience #Confidence #PersonalDevelopment #FashionPsychology #Mindset #Entrepreneurship #Leadership #SelfDevelopment #Comeback #MentalStrength #LifeCoach

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    13 min
  • 17. How Your First Impression Shapes Everything (And How to Master It)
    May 28 2025

    Did you know it takes just one tenth of a second for someone to form a first impression of you? In this episode, I investigate the psychology behind first impressions and how to make yours powerful, authentic and unforgettable.

    Join me, a transformational life coach and personal stylist, as I unpack:

    ✨ The neuroscience behind snap judgments and the "halo effect"
    ✨ How your style impacts not just how others see you but how you see yourself
    ✨ The concept of "strategic authenticity" expressing your true self whilst honouring your professional environment
    ✨ Three practical tools you can implement this week to instantly elevate your first impression

    Whether you're walking into a job interview, client meeting or networking event, this episode will equip you with the mindset and strategies to take control of those crucial first moments.

    Ready to stop being invisible and start being unforgettable? Press play and let’s shift how the world sees you.

    🔗 Mentioned in this episode: Learn more about the Style and Confidence Accelerator Programme here.

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    17 min
  • 16. What to do when you worry too much about what people think
    May 20 2025

    If the fear of judgment is holding you back from showing up, speaking up or even wearing what you really want to wear , then this episode is for you.

    I’m sharing why so many ambitious women stay stuck in the “what will they think?” spiral, how it silently sabotages your confidence and some mindset shifts that will set you free.

    You’ll learn:
    💭 Why we care what others think (and how to break the habit)
    🔥 Four powerful strategies to stop playing small
    💃 How to use your personal style as a confidence catalyst
    If you're ready to stop shrinking and start shining, this is your moment.

    ✨ My 4-week 1:1 coaching experience, the Style & Confidence Accelerator. Where we blend mindset work with powerful personal style so you can show up as the most magnetic version of YOU.
    🔗 Style & Confidence Accelerator


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    14 min