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There are many tips to fight less with your partner. However, this is one you may not have heard of. It's called "sharing your tender underbelly." Anger is a secondary emotion. Therefore, what's underneath your anger is called the tender underbelly. Identifying what that is and sharing it instead of your anger can be a game changer. For starters, it's the core of what you're really feeling. Second, your partner is much more likely to respond with empathy when they hear it compared to when they feel your anger. Try it!

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Saving your marriage begins with open, honest communication. Take time to really listen to your partner without interrupting or judging. Rebuild trust by being consistent, keeping promises, and showing appreciation for each other daily. Address conflicts calmly and respectfully—focus on resolving issues, not assigning blame. Prioritize quality time together: date nights, shared hobbies, or even simple daily check-ins can reignite intimacy. Practice forgiveness and patience; every relationship faces challenges, but how you respond to them makes the difference. Reflect on what brought you together in the first place, and focus on nurturing that bond. With effort, vulnerability, and mutual commitment, it’s possible to rebuild and even strengthen your relationship. Saving a marriage takes work, but the rewards of love and partnership are worth it. In this new episode, I discuss the top three ways to save your marriage.

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Compatibility is often romanticized as the cornerstone of successful relationships, but it's frequently overrated. While having shared interests or similar personalities can make things easier, true connection thrives on effort, communication, and mutual growth—not just matching traits. Obsessing over compatibility can lead people to dismiss potentially great relationships just because someone doesn’t fit a checklist. In reality, no two people are perfectly aligned. Disagreements, differences, and challenges are inevitable. What matters more is how partners navigate those moments, not whether they see eye-to-eye on every issue. Growth often comes from contrast, not similarity. Compatibility might get people through the good times, but commitment, empathy, and adaptability carry them through the hard ones. Relying too heavily on the idea of compatibility can be a convenient way to avoid doing the work that real relationships demand. It’s not about finding the “right” person, but building something real with someone willing.

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