Ever found yourself uttering 'yes' when every fiber of your being screams 'no'? Buckle up for a riotous yet soul-stirring ride on "These Fucking Feelings," where my colleagues Crystal, our new co-host, and I, Micah, link arms with the indomitable Sheryl Green. We reckon with the art of setting boundaries and the liberation that comes with the tiny, powerful word 'no,' as Sheryl unfurls insights from her groundbreaking book, "You Had Me at No." It's a chapter in life that many of us skip but desperately need to read—and we're about to narrate it together, laughter included.

Stripping away the facade of the never-tiring giver, this episode peels back the guilt and reveals the raw necessity of self-care. From my personal anecdotes of resilience during the despair of a global pandemic to the grassroots of animal rescue, we lay bare the transformative journey that leads to the critical realization that refueling oneself isn't selfish—it's survival. And in a world where abundance guilt and enabling others can deplete our reserve, we're flipping the script to prioritize mental health and well-being with the same vigor we extend to those we love.

Bear witness to the empowerment that comes from speaking out and using our experiences as a beacon for others navigating the dark. Through my tales of clinical depression and Sheryl's poignant storytelling, we underscore the relentless pursuit of healing and the continuous evolution of the self. This episode isn't just about the sorrows and the setbacks—it's a celebration of unexpected joys, the humor that lightens our days, and the relationships that reflect back the love we must first extend to ourselves. Join us for an episode that isn't just heard but felt, as we champion a path to self-awareness and assert the boundaries necessary for a life well-lived.

Join the conversation and share your journey with us using #TheseFuckingFeelings, #SayNoMore, #EmpowermentThroughNo, #YouHadMeAtNo, #SettingBoundaries, #MentalHealthAwareness, #SelfCareIsntSelfish, #HealingJourneys, #JoyInSelfCare, and #LoveYourselfFirst. Let's spread the word and help others find the strength to prioritize their well-being and assert their boundaries for a healthier, more fulfilling life.

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As I sat across from Rebecca, her story unfolded like a mosaic of triumph and vulnerability—tales of her health battles, the power of friendship in the face of adversity, and her latest venture into LGBT fantasy fiction that's destined for the silver screen. Our conversation flowed from laughter to tears, weaving through the complexities of life's challenges and the beauty of human connection. Join us for an intimate episode where we lift the veil on personal struggles, the cathartic journey of writing, and the resilience found in creativity.

Rebecca didn't just share an update on her ambitious film project; she brought us along on a vivid stroll through a gay club scene, the quest for genuine representation, and reminded us that distance doesn't dampen the bonds we forge. We riff on the quirks of author signings—those unexpected short stories that leave the audience wanting more—and the emotional rollercoaster of penning books amidst grief. The episode is a tapestry of poignant tales, including my own dance with cancer, and the ways such experiences reshape our art, relationships, and sense of self.

This episode isn't just about recounting our hardships; it's an ode to the growth that stems from them. From the surprising artistic evolution following a concussion to the mental health realizations that bubble up during healing, we bare our souls. We address the sting of online negativity and the importance of authenticity, all while championing Rebecca's upcoming film—a beacon of representation we're thrilled to support. Tune in for stories that celebrate the indomitable spirit, and the connections that sustain us through life's most turbulent waters.

Rebecca's ambitious journey doesn't just end with storytelling—she's bringing the vibrant world of the "Acceptance" LGBTQ+ fantasy series to the big screen. Planned as a five-film franchise, these films aim to explore the depths of fighting oppression and the complex interplay between societal roles and personal identity. However, to bring this vision to life, funding is crucial. The budget will cover essential costs like travel expenses for on-location filming and the transportation of actors and actresses to picturesque filming locations in Philadelphia and Seattle.

We are reaching out to our community across the UK, US, and Bulgaria to support this groundbreaking project. Every contribution helps in making this dream a reality and enhances the authenticity and reach of our narrative. Plus, contributors might get a special treat—a cameo appearance by the beloved character Micah Bravery!

To support Rebecca and be a part of this exciting venture, please consider making a donation at: https://ko-fi.com/secretsofthewarrior#checkoutModal. Your support not only aids in the production of a meaningful film series but also champions the cause of representation and creativity. Join us in this cinematic journey and help us tell stories that matter.

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Prepare to embark on a journey with Bizzie Gold, the visionary behind Break Method, as we peel back the layers of emotional addiction and the life-altering quest for purpose. In a world where past traumas silently script our future, we uncover the powerful influence of childhood experiences and discuss the potential of breaking free from the chains of generational patterns. My own perspective on choosing a life without children intersects with Bizzie's insights, offering a mosaic of viewpoints on legacy, healing, and the pursuit of a life that resonates with one’s true self.

We navigate the complex terrain of early emotional development, scrutinizing the cycle of responses from fear to anger, and how they shape our adult relationships. The discussion dives into the challenging concept of embracing our entire selves, questioning if this includes the darker facets of our personalities, and the role of labels and negative self-talk inherited from our younger years. Bizzie Gold's alternative approach through Break Method offers a beacon of hope, demonstrating that transformative change is achievable without the exhaustion of reliving the past.

Peering into the nuances of intuition versus instinct, we arm you with the knowledge to discern the whispers of genuine insight over the clamor of protective urges. This episode is a testament to the courage required for emotional metamorphosis, as Bizzie Gold guides us through the labyrinth of our minds. By the end, you'll feel inspired and ready to take those first decisive steps towards not just rewriting your story, but also contributing to the collective narrative of a healthier, more self-aware society. Join us for this profound exploration of self, and emerge with a newfound determination to chart your path to emotional freedom.

Breaking Chains of Emotional Addiction: Bizzie Gold's Guide to Purpose and Liberation | Season 3 Episode 321

CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Intro
0:41 - Krystal Feels Intimidated
2:02 - Introducing Bizzie Gold
3:56 - Understanding Emotional Addiction
6:02 - Origin of Emotional Responses
7:01 - Protective Emotional Responses
8:28 - Breaking the Emotional Addiction Cycle
10:29 - Brain Language Processing Insights
15:20 - Impact of Labels on Perception
17:49 - Uncarved Block Analogy Explained
22:24 - Trauma's Impact on Micah
26:15 - Micah's Exposure Therapy Journey
28:55 - Internal Self-Talk During Therapy
29:45 - Rewiring Emotional Logic
33:00 - Emotional Response Logic Rewiring Example
34:55 - Further Emotional Logic Rewiring Example
38:20 - Brain Rewiring Techniques
42:15 - Brain Patterns and Behavior
46:27 - Break Method Candidacy
51:15 - Benefits of the Break Method
56:43 - Addressing Mental Health Skepticism
1:02:05 - Final Words
1:03:42 - Outro

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