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Welcome to the "Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast"! In this episode, our hosts Ruby and Susan dive deep into the impact of alcohol on vacations. They answer a listener's question: "Vacation worries…. I am a year+ into my AF journey, have been on vacations AF and still think having some drinks on vacation sounds fun. I have done a lot of work and still notice how vacation triggers that FOMO.

They discuss the effects like feeling unwell, increased stress and anxiety, and the potential for overconsumption on vacations, and discuss reintroducing alcohol after one year AF on a vacation and its effects on the brain and body. They emphasize the importance of considering how one wants to feel over a 24-hour period on a vacation, not just 20 minutes.

They also explore the use of tapping as a tool to manage anxiety and stress, and how it can help to deal with cravings. The hosts encourage listeners to join the discussion and reflect on their own alcohol-free journeys. With practical tips and personal anecdotes, this episode is a valuable resource for those seeking an alcohol-free vacation experience. So, grab your favorite non-alcoholic drink, sit back, and join the conversation!

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Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

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Welcome to the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast! In this episode, hosts Susan and Ruby are joined by special guest Emily Judice. Emily is a high-achieving entrepreneur and mother of four. They delve into Emily's inspiring journey of scaling her business while reducing her alcohol consumption and embracing an alcohol-free lifestyle. They discuss the impact of alcohol on various aspects of life, from anxiety and sleep to productivity and overall well-being. Emily shares her strategies for intentional living, emphasizing the importance of routine and discipline in achieving health, wealth, and happiness. "There is nothing that will make you meet yourself like removing distractions and these buffers, like alcohol and overindulgent food that are not helping you reach your health goals."- Emily Judice
The hosts also highlight the positive impact of Emily's journey on inspiring others to reconsider their relationship with alcohol. She embodies the ethos of this podcast in empowering her clients to break free from a love-hate relationship with alcohol and discover true freedom and joy in life. So sit back, grab your favorite drink (alcohol-free, of course), and join us for an enriching and enlightening conversation on living an alcohol-free, intentional, and empowered life.

Where to connect with Emily Judice:
Website
Instagram: @emilyeatsandchats
Youtube

Keywords
Emily Judice, high-achieving woman, scaling business, 6 to 7 figures, reducing alcohol consumption, This Naked Mind, alcohol effects, Enneagram type 3, productivity, anxiety, sleep, macros tracking, reducing drinking, stress relief, intentional living, well-being, structure, discipline, bedtime routine, morning routine, intentional time, sensory walk, health journey, overachieving, vacation, social events, mindful decision-making, sobriety, routine equals freedom, weekender's mentality, alcohol freedom coaching.

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Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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Welcome to the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast, where hosts Ruby Williams and Susan Larkin, your dynamic duo of alcohol freedom coaches, guide you through the twists and turns of breaking free from alcohol.

In this episode, Episode 17, they dive deep into a listener's burning question, "I'm 31 days AF today. Longest streak I’ve had in months. Today is the first real struggle I’ve had with the wine witch showing up all day. There are days when I feel great and it feels easy and then days like today where the struggle is real. I just want the struggle to be over. I feel like the fading effect bias gets me every time. The longer I go the more I think a drink seems fine. I know it’s not. But my brain is not accepting that answer."

Susan and Ruby delve into the concept of fading effect bias and cognitive dissonance, providing valuable insights and practical strategies to help you navigate the ups and downs of an alcohol-free lifestyle. They share personal experiences, expert insights, and practical tactics for breaking free from the allure of alcohol and regaining control of one's thoughts and emotions.

Here are some key takeaways from the episode:

• Understanding the fading affect bias and how it impacts our perception of alcohol over time.
• Techniques for challenging romanticized thoughts about alcohol.
• Insights into cognitive dissonance and reclaiming control over our thoughts and feelings.

We encourage you to tune in to the episode to gain valuable tools and perspectives that will support you in feeling lit on your alcohol-free path.

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00:00 Fading affect bias: Unpleasant feelings fade faster.

04:47 Let go of the rope, stop the fight.

07:48 Reflecting on alcohol's negative impact on life.

10:14 Drinking too much led to a fight.

13:09 Challenging underlying beliefs around romanticizing wine.

16:12 Resisting temptation with strong convictions and reasons.

19:29 Practicing savoring for better mental health.

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

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Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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In our latest episode, Susan and Ruby answer a listener's question, "I’m 100 Days AF still flummoxed at how I was managing to put away away at least an extra 700 cals a day and yet, I haven’t lost weight?? Blows my mind".

This episode is packed with insightful discussions and practical tips for anyone on an alcohol-free journey or looking to make intentional choices about food habits. The hosts emphasize the importance of focusing on a few goals at a time and taking a balanced approach to make progress.

They discuss the significance of gradual progress and showing self-compassion, especially in the context of an alcohol-free journey. Ruby shares her experience with cutting out sugar and the unexpected effects it had on her body. The hosts provide strategies for dealing with sugar cravings, including making healthier alternatives and setting oneself up for success by eliminating sugary temptations from the home.

Both hosts address the frustration of not losing weight immediately after quitting alcohol and stress the importance of uncoupling weight loss expectations from the alcohol-free journey initially. They encourage listeners to be patient and emphasize the body's need to heal and recalibrate after quitting alcohol.00:00 Body healing and recalibrating to achieve balance.

04:24 Separate weight loss from alcohol-free journey. Apply mindset to food too.

06:59 Bodies struggle with change, but progress continues.

11:40 Struggle with self-compassion in an alcohol free journey.

16:20 Confidently overcoming urges, transitioning from alcohol to food.

17:27 Sugar-free for 4 years, sensitive to it.

21:13 Communicate with your spouse for alcohol-free household success.

25:28 Struggling with an alcohol-free journey, focusing on feelings.

27:47 Struggling with emotions, working on self-improvement.

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

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Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcast

Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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Welcome to the Feel It Alcohol Free Podcast! In this episode, hosts Coach Ruby and Coach Susan, along with special guest Tammi Salas, share powerful insights on alcohol use disorder, recovery, and the importance of supportive communities. Tammi discusses her own alcohol-free journey, the challenges she faced, and the communities she's created to support herself and others. From in-person connections to online support, this episode explores the modern landscape of sober communities. Tammi unveils her creative ventures and upcoming initiatives, underscoring the importance of involvement in accountability projects and communal engagement. Join us as we delve into the power of friendship, accountability, and the transformative nature of creative expression.

Tammi Salas is a Sober. Dignified. Creative. Woman. She is a painter, diligent list-maker, certified coach, skilled facilitator, and former co-host of the wildly popular Unruffled Podcast, a podcast that explored the intersection between creativity and sobriety. Tammi founded the Ray of Light Online Community in September 2021 and co-facilitates these weekly creative salons with her business partner, Corinne Bowen. She lives in Oakland, CA and daydreams about one day moving to Paris.
You can connect with Tammi at:
tammisalas.com
tammisalas.substack.com

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

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Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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In this episode of the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast, hosts Coach Ruby Williams and Coach Susan Larkin dive deep into the topic of coping with anxiety in the evening without alcohol answering a listener’s question: “I’m now back at a new job that is out of my comfort zone but exactly what I wanted. I am really working to continue to stay present with my family. What do you do now to cope with the anxiety in the evening without having a drink?”

From setting feeling intentions for the day to finding creative ways to stay connected to family, Ruby and Susan provide a wealth of strategies that have helped them navigate through stress and anxiety without reaching for a drink. Join them as they explore different tactics, engage with the audience's questions, and offer their wisdom on living a fulfilling alcohol-free lifestyle. Tune in for an empowering and enlightening conversation that aims to inspire and guide anyone seeking to feel lit alcohol free.

Keywords: wine, alcohol, alcohol freedom, anxiety, stress, coping mechanism, mental health, family, self-care, self-compassion, tactics, strategies, self-awareness, self-reflection, mindfulness, intention setting, daily intention, stress cycle, relaxation techniques, deep breathing, movement, exercise, habits, gratitude, compassion, resilience, support community, coaching, emotional well-being

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00:00 Using alcohol to cope with stress and anxiety.

05:58 Realizing alcohol freedom reduces stress, anxiety, and depression.

09:00 Use exercise and family time for stress relief.

10:53 Encouragement to join the Feel Lit podcast Facebook group.

13:21 Check in with emotions to reduce anxiety.

19:40 Focusing on self-care and kindness to myself.

21:50 Try new tools, practice, and commit

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

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Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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Welcome to Episode 13 of the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast! In this episode, hosts Susan and Ruby delve into the emotional and physiological complexities of alcohol dependence as they answer a listener's question: "How can I get back to being a “normal” drinker, I just want to be able to drink like everyone else? " They share personal experiences and insights, challenging the concept of a "normal drinker" and highlighting the pitfalls of moderation.

Susan shared her personal revelation about fully committing to an alcohol-free lifestyle, likening the experience to the metaphor of holding onto two worlds. This analogy beautifully symbolizes the struggle of being stuck in a cyclical pattern of drinking, and the empowering choice to break free from it.

Ruby illuminated the importance of starting with small steps, such as a weekend alcohol-free, and gradually progressing to longer periods of alcohol-free living. She emphasized the power of mental clarity and the freedom gained from abstaining from alcohol, creating new neural pathways and avoiding the tantalizing yet elusive idea of moderation.

Through their candid discussion, they emphasize the significance of committing to an alcohol-free lifestyle and offer practical techniques for embracing emotional clarity and freedom. Join us as we explore the journey to alcohol freedom and the power of fully committing to a healthier, more empowering way of living.

Keywords
Alcohol, Self-blame, Coping mechanism, Accelerator events, Physiological response, Addiction stigma, Alcohol freedom coaches, Normal drinker, Observing behaviors, Curiosity, Neural pathways, Cognitive dissonance, Ziva meditation, Come to your senses, Presence, Grounded, Hijacked state, Living alcohol-free, Embracing feelings, Commitment, Baby steps, Small wins, Mental clarity, Freedom, Neural pathways, Abstaining, Elusive moderation, Occasional drinking

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04:27 Questioning the concept of "normal" drinking habits.

06:21 Constantly questioning and evaluating drinking habits, seeking freedom.

10:00 Alcohol use can become addictive due to physiology.

14:29 Observing others for alcohol tactics, feeling better.

18:25 Guide for gradual alcohol-free transition leads to empowerment.

22:31 Choosing new pathways leads to lasting

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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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In this episode of the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Podcast, coaches Ruby and Susan dive into the rollercoaster of emotions in the early days of living an alcohol-free lifestyle. They tackle a listener's question about feeling overly emotional after going alcohol-free and share their own experiences with unexpected bursts of tears, anger, and joy. They discuss the science behind these emotions, provide tools to navigate and embrace these feelings, and offer practical tips to kick start dopamine production naturally. The hosts also touch on the importance of celebrating small wins and using the "What have you done well today?" practice to shift focus to the positive. With insightful anecdotes and expert advice, this episode offers valuable strategies for navigating the emotional journey of an alcohol-free lifestyle.

Keywords
Alcohol-free living, alcohol freedom coaches, emotional roller coaster, sobriety, emotional healing, sleep, dopamine, feeling wheel, anhedonia, alcohol cravings, b vitamins, exercise, savoring, RAIN practice, feelings exploration, emotional mastery, self-awareness, gratitude, self-celebration, joy, envy, emotional processing, emotional regulation, stress management, self-care, self-reflection, behavior change, Facebook group, alcohol-free podcast, lit lifestyle, purposeful living

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00:00 Understanding the science behind emotional healing.

04:50 Understanding emotions using feelings wheel, gamifying experience.

07:55 Processing emotions is part of the healing.

09:20 Stopping drinking affects dopamine production, leading to blues. After 100 days alcohol-free, focus on joy.

13:00 Regular exercise and savoring activities for pleasure.

16:19 Set timer to identify and describe feelings.

19:15 Addressing emotional healing through RAIN practice.

22:11 Focusing on the positive and celebrating wins.

We want to hear from you! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and ask us any questions you have about breaking free from wine or living an alcohol-free lifestyle. Your question could be the highlight of a future episode!

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Find community and connection on the Feel Lit Alcohol Free Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/feellitalcoholfreepodcast

Websites:
Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
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It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.