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  • Ep #185: From People-Pleasing to Truth with Michael Henri
    Sep 5 2025

    Do you say “yes” when your body says “no”? This episode is a gentle guide to stop people-pleasing and start speaking your truth.

    The speaker explores the fear of being seen and the habit of fawning—agreeing to keep the peace—even when it doesn’t feel right. You’ll learn a simple way to tell the difference between your authentic intuition and old people-pleasing patterns: pause, breathe, and ask clear yes/no questions like, “Do I want this?” “Will it be good for me?” The episode highlights Satya (truthfulness) from yoga philosophy and the practice of Ishvarapranidhana (surrender), reminding us we can offer our truth but cannot control how others receive it. There’s also a science lens: social fear can feel like physical pain, yet every small act of honest expression rewires the brain toward self-trust and resilience. You’ll finish with a short grounding practice—hand on throat and heart—and affirmations like “I am safe to be seen.” If you’re ready to move from external approval to inner anchoring, this conversation will help you begin—kindly, clearly, and now.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:01:42 Being Seen, Heard, Valued

    00:02:34 Fear of Judgment vs. Truth

    00:04:08 Naming Fawning (People-Pleasing)

    00:04:46 Satya: Living in Truth

    00:06:15 Intuition vs. Old Patterns

    00:10:17 Body-Led Yes/No Questions

    00:12:30 Collecting a Clearer Truth

    00:14:21 Neuro Lens: Social Pain & Fear

    00:15:58 Why Speak Your Truth

    00:17:47 External Validation vs. Inner Anchor

    00:21:05 Ishvarapranidhana: Surrender

    00:21:56 Rewiring for Self-Trust

    00:23:23 Conscious Boundaries & Choices

    00:24:32 Grounding Questions

    00:25:18 Hand-to-Throat/Heart Practice

    00:29:11 Willing, Not Fearless

    00:30:19 Authenticity over Perfection

    00:33:05 Reflective Prompts & Close


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Yogic concepts: Satya (truthfulness), Ishvarapranidhana (surrender)

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Byron de Marse’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/byronyoga/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: authenticity, fawning, people-pleasing, boundaries, Satya, Ishvarapranidhana, visibility, self-trust, inner validation, external validation, nervous system, neuroplasticity, yoga philosophy, mindset, emotional resilience


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    36 min
  • Ep #184: Comparison vs Connection: The Real Role of a Teacher with Byron de Marse
    Aug 28 2025

    Have you ever felt pressure to be the “perfect” teacher—or the “perfect” student?

    In this honest and heartfelt conversation, Byron de Marse shares his personal experiences of becoming a teacher and the complex relationship that develops between teacher and student. He explores how stepping into the role of a teacher often brings up feelings of doubt, discomfort, and the fear of being seen. But rather than avoiding these feelings, Byron believes they are invitations to grow.

    The episode touches on how students often project ideas onto their teachers—seeing them as more wise, perfect, or powerful than they really are. This can create tension on both sides. Byron speaks openly about the responsibility teachers hold, the need to keep learning, and how being a teacher is really about being in service—not in control.

    He also dives into the importance of confidence, vulnerability, and humility in both teaching and learning. Whether you’re new to teaching or deep in your practice, this episode is a reminder that nobody has it all figured out—and that’s okay.

    ✨ This episode will leave you thinking deeply about the energy you bring into the spaces you hold, and how we can all honor the sacred exchange between student and teacher.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:04:10 Byron's Journey into Teaching

    00:11:44 The Power Dynamic in Student-Teacher Relationships

    00:16:30 Projecting Perfection and Receiving Projection

    00:22:55 Teaching as a Mirror

    00:29:35 Vulnerability and Confidence as a Teacher

    00:35:58 Owning the Seat of the Teacher

    00:41:02 When the Student Becomes the Teacher

    00:47:19 Closing Reflections on Teaching with Integrity


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Byron de Marse’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/byronyoga/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: teacher-student dynamics, yoga teaching, imposter syndrome, vulnerability, comparison, personal growth, space holding, self-inquiry, yoga philosophy, emotional intelligence

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    44 min
  • Ep #183: The Cost of Being Who You Think They Want
    Aug 21 2025

    Are you performing your life—or truly living it?


    In this episode, the conversation explores the tension between performing for acceptance and the deep human desire for belonging. Many of us learn early on to shape-shift, hide parts of ourselves, or show up as who we think we should be—especially in relationships, careers, or community. But this constant performance comes at a cost: disconnection, anxiety, and a loss of authenticity.

    The episode dives into the neuroscience behind people-pleasing and masking, linking it to survival responses like fawning and dissociation. Drawing from yogic wisdom and somatic awareness, it invites listeners to notice where they feel safe to be real—and where they don’t.

    You’ll hear personal stories, reflection prompts, and key insights on how to shift from performing to belonging—through courage, boundaries, nervous system regulation, and community.

    💭 Because real belonging doesn’t ask you to shrink. It asks you to show up, messy and whole.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:03:16 Performing vs. Belonging

    00:06:27 People-pleasing & masking

    00:09:44 The fawn response explained

    00:12:36 Emotional masking in childhood

    00:15:02 The nervous system and identity

    00:17:55 Belonging vs. fitting in (Brené Brown)

    00:20:41 When authenticity feels dangerous

    00:24:08 Somatic cues for safety

    00:26:33 Real belonging through truth

    00:29:17 Boundaries and nervous system repair

    00:31:54 Letting go of performance

    00:33:48 Closing meditation & reflection


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Brené Brown: Belonging vs. fitting in

    • Polyvagal theory: Fawn response, nervous system safety

    • Concepts: Masking, emotional safety, dissociation, somatic awareness

    • Practices: Grounding, reflection, inner child awareness

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: authenticity, people-pleasing, fawn response, nervous system, belonging vs fitting in, performance, self-worth, trauma healing, yoga and emotions, somatic healing, identity, boundaries

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    31 min
  • Ep #182: It’s OK to Feel This Way: Validation vs Invalidation with Michael Henri
    Jul 31 2025

    We all want to feel seen, heard, and understood—but how often do we actually offer that to ourselves or others?

    This episode explores the deep emotional difference between validation and invalidation. You’ll learn how simple, kind words like “It makes sense you feel that way” can calm the nervous system, reduce stress, and create true connection. In contrast, phrases like “You’re overreacting” or “You shouldn’t feel that way” can lead to shame, anxiety, and emotional disconnection.

    The episode also touches on self-compassion versus self-judgment—reminding us that we can hold space for our own emotions without criticism. Scientific insights show how emotional validation regulates the nervous system, improves vagal tone, and strengthens emotional resilience. From a yogic lens, it connects to ahimsa (non-harming), especially in how we treat ourselves and others emotionally.

    Gentle breathing practices and reflection questions are offered to help you anchor these teachings in your body. Whether in relationships or in your own self-talk, this episode is a powerful reminder: validation doesn’t require agreement—just presence.

    🧠 A soothing and practical listen for anyone seeking deeper emotional connection.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:01:54 What Is Validation vs. Invalidation

    00:06:31 The Science Behind Validation

    00:10:29 Long-Term Effects of Invalidation

    00:10:35 Yogic Perspective: Ahimsa & Holding Space

    00:13:58 Self-Compassion vs. Self-Judgment

    00:20:12 Emotional Practice & Vagal Tone

    00:22:16 Integration: Reflective Questions

    00:24:42 Closing Meditation


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Concept of Ahimsa (Yogic principle of non-harming)

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: emotional validation, self-compassion, emotional intelligence, nervous system, relationships, holding space, ahimsa, breathwork, healing communication, self-judgment, self-regulation, vagus nerve, trauma-informed yoga, inner kindness

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    29 min
  • Ep #181: Yoga Business and Money Mindset with Kalina Kielan
    Jul 22 2025

    Ever wondered how to align your passion for yoga with your need to earn a living—without guilt?

    Kalina shares her powerful journey from the corporate world in Poland to becoming a yoga teacher and business mentor in Bali. After burning out in a high-stress job, she turned to yoga for relief, only to discover a deeper calling. Now, she helps yoga teachers break through limiting beliefs—especially around money, self-worth, and entrepreneurship.

    In this episode, Kalina dives into the emotional and practical blocks many yoga teachers face when transitioning into the business side of teaching. She challenges the belief that yoga and business can't coexist, offering simple mindset shifts and tools like journaling, tapping (EFT), and inner inquiry to explore one’s relationship with money.

    Kalina emphasizes the importance of intention: knowing your “why” not just in your teaching, but in how and why you charge for your work. She encourages yoga teachers to evaluate their pricing, move through fear of rejection, and step into the reality that it’s okay to charge—and charge well—for your time and transformation.

    Whether you're a new teacher or already navigating your yoga business, this episode will help you shift from doubt to clarity, from scarcity to sustainability.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:03:27 Kalina’s journey from corporate to yoga

    00:06:48 Moving to Bali for yoga

    00:09:39 Knowing your values and building a business

    00:12:05 Challenging the “low-paying job” mindset

    00:17:01 Why yoga teachers need business skills

    00:23:39 Reframing money beliefs

    00:27:28 Tapping as a tool for mindset shifts

    00:34:34 Practical pricing examples

    00:38:51 Studio classes vs private/workshops

    00:43:29 The importance of stepping back

    00:50:14 Kalina and Kalina’s personal pricing evolution

    00:55:01 Charging for transformation, not just time

    01:00:00 Final thoughts and message to listeners


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Episode #1: The Rat Race Crippled my Lower Back with Brent Collier: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3eLyqtM0Thmf6vGG6fKHK5?si=be77316f163a40a4

    • Tap with Brad: https://www.youtube.com/tapwithbrad

    • Kalina’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calispace_/

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: yoga teachers, money mindset, yoga business, limiting beliefs, entrepreneurship, pricing strategy, nervous system, tapping, burnout recovery, purpose-driven work, studio vs private teaching, EFT tapping, yoga lifestyle

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    1 h et 3 min
  • Ep #180: Trust vs. Control: Letting go without panic
    Jul 8 2025


    What if not knowing is exactly where transformation begins?

    In this episode, the invitation is clear: step into uncertainty, not as something to fix or avoid, but as a powerful teacher. The conversation explores the contrast between certainty and uncertainty, control and trust, showing how our desire for clarity often blocks us from growth, creativity, and new possibilities.

    By letting go of needing to control every outcome, we allow space for inner wisdom, surrender, and even joy in the unknown. You’ll explore how breath (especially the pause between inhale and exhale) can train your nervous system to sit with discomfort. From neuroscience to yogic teachings like Ishvara Pranidhana, this episode reminds us that the unknown is not empty—it’s fertile ground for growth.

    Through reflection questions, breath practices, and insights on decision-making, you’ll leave feeling more grounded, present, and open to possibility—even without all the answers.

    A calming, poetic reminder that uncertainty isn’t a weakness—it’s where real life begins.

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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:02:06 Certainty vs. Uncertainty

    00:06:03 Possibility and the Unknown

    00:08:07 Voice of Certainty vs. Voice of Trust

    00:10:00 Breath Awareness & Kumbhaka

    00:13:06 Brain’s Fear of the Unknown

    00:15:40 Neuroplasticity & Growth

    00:18:01 Control vs. Trust

    00:22:32 Letting Go Increases Oxytocin

    00:25:03 Decision-Making from Calm vs. Fear

    00:26:00 Integration Meditation

    00:28:10 Final Reflections

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    • Ishvara Pranidhana (Yogic Niyama – surrender)

    • Kumbhaka (breath retention)

    • Concept of neuroplasticity

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/

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    Tags: uncertainty, letting go, emotional growth, yoga philosophy, breathwork, trust, personal development, self-awareness, nervous system, Ishvara Pranidhana, mindfulness, control, decision making, surrender, neuroplasticity

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    32 min
  • Ep #179: Intimacy vs. Isolation: The Healer Power of Being Seen
    Jul 1 2025

    What if the thing you’re avoiding—being truly seen—is actually the key to healing?

    In this powerful episode, the speaker explores the contrast between isolation and intimacy, and how both can impact our relationships, our work, and our inner world. While isolation often feels like protection—especially in times of burnout, heartbreak, or exhaustion—it can eventually lead to loneliness and numbness. On the other hand, intimacy requires courage. It’s about being vulnerable, open, and allowing yourself to be supported, not just in romantic relationships but in everyday life and professional spaces too.

    The episode blends neuroscience, yoga philosophy, and personal reflection. It touches on the role of the spiritual heart (hridaya), the healing power of physical and emotional connection, and the challenges of receiving support without guilt. Themes like overgiving vs. receptivity, self-care as a gateway to connection, and the need for balance are emphasized.

    Listeners are guided through reflective questions and even a gentle breath-based embodiment practice. The episode closes with a tender reminder: You are allowed to receive. You are not alone.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:02:00 What is Isolation?

    00:04:42 Defining Intimacy

    00:06:15 Inner Narratives of Isolation

    00:07:31 Yogic Lens: Hridaya & Bhakti

    00:08:15 Acro Yoga & Building Trust

    00:09:18 Science: Cortisol vs. Oxytocin

    00:10:43 Intimacy with Yourself

    00:13:09 Intimacy in Teaching

    00:14:00 Entrepreneurship & Isolation

    00:15:45 Overgiving vs. Receptivity

    00:18:40 Self-Intimacy as a Foundation

    00:22:30 Hatha Yoga & Balance

    00:23:47 Why It's Hard to Receive

    00:25:04 Story: Needing Help

    00:27:27 Somatic Breath Practice

    00:29:01 Reflective Questions

    00:30:43 Closing Affirmations


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Yoga Concepts: Hridaya (spiritual heart), Bhakti Yoga, Hatha Yoga

    • Scientific Ideas: Oxytocin, cortisol, inflammation, Polyvagal Theory

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: intimacy, isolation, overgiving, receptivity, burnout, nervous system, yoga philosophy, self-care, emotional healing, vulnerability, connection, polyvagal theory

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    34 min
  • Ep #178: The Yoga Before Yoga with Lucy St John
    Jun 24 2025

    What happens when ancient wisdom meets a modern heart that's ready to listen?

    That’s exactly what unfolded for Lucy St. John. At just 23, a spontaneous experience of unity consciousness during a trip to India shifted the entire course of her life. Suddenly, she saw herself reflected in every human being—and that sense of deep connection lasted for months.

    In this heartfelt conversation, Lucy shares how that awakening led her to the Vedic tradition, 12 years of oral teachings, and a deep commitment to yoga, not just as movement, but as a way of being. From washing dishes in an ashram to chanting Sanskrit mantras with precision, Lucy reveals what it means to live yoga—not perform it.

    She opens up about the early days when no one showed up to her talks, the resilience it took to keep going, and the healing power of sound and silence. Whether you're a yoga teacher, practitioner, or simply curious about spiritual growth, this episode is a warm reminder that sometimes the most profound truths are the ones we already know—deep down.


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    Episode Chapters:

    00:00:00 Introduction

    00:02:40 How Lucy Found Yoga

    00:06:13 Teaching Vedic Wisdom Before Yoga Was Popular

    00:14:02 What Is the Vedic Tradition?

    00:23:04 Mantras, Sound, and Vibration

    00:37:16 The Power of Just Being

    00:45:00 Ignorance as a Starting Point

    00:49:15 Shifting Energy in Yoga and Life

    00:56:05 Why Every Teacher’s Voice Matters

    00:59:28 Inner Peace Before Outer Change


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    📚 Mentions & Resources:

    • Vedic texts and oral tradition

    • Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras

    • Maharishi Mahesh Yogi & Transcendental Meditation

    • Kali Yuga & cosmic cycles

    • TM Ashram in Rishikesh

    • Story of Guha (King of the Forest)

    • Dewey's quote: "Failure is instructive

    • Lucy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucystjohnyoga/?hl=en

    • Lucy’s Website: https://lucystjohnyoga.com/

    • Michael Henri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelyoga.pt/

    • Going Pro Yoga’s Instagram: https://www.instagram/com/goingproyoga/


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    Tags: vedic tradition, yoga philosophy, unity consciousness, yoga teacher training, mantra, sound healing, yoga therapy, inner peace, Sanskrit, spiritual practice, silence, embodiment

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    1 h et 12 min