In this transformative episode of the Infiniti Podcast, Chaya Abelsky and Jay McNaught sit down with Dr. Richard Boyatzis—renowned organizational psychologist and co-author of The Science of Change, the recent breakthrough book now referred to as the bible for coaches. With clarity and warmth, Dr. Boyatzis explores affinity—the emotional bond and human resonance that underpin sustainable behavioral change.

Drawing from his groundbreaking Intentional Change Theory (ICT), Dr. Boyatzis explains how Positive Emotional Attractors (PEAs)—such as compassion, hope, and purpose—activate the parasympathetic nervous system, creating the space needed for learning, openness, and growth. Chaya and Jay dive into what this means for coaches, leaders, and anyone seeking to help others evolve—whether in organizations, classrooms, families, or communities.

💡 Key Takeaways for Leaders & Coaches:

1. Affinity is the starting point – Deep human connection is the gateway to real change, and it’s foundational—not optional.

2. The PEA effect – Neuroscience confirms that when people experience hope and empathy, they access their best thinking and strongest motivation.

3. Lead with resonance – Resonant leaders inspire change by being attuned, authentic, and anchored in vision and care.

4. Shift from fixing to becoming – Coaching is most powerful when it’s about helping people grow into their ideal selves—not merely solving immediate problems.

5. Backed by science, driven by heart – The Science of Change offers a compelling research-backed roadmap to lead transformation with humanity at its core.

In this moving episode of Affinity for INFIITy, Becky Rothstein opens up about her journey through healing, growth, and alignment. With warmth and clarity, Becky shares how she has learned to trust the process, remain present in the moment, and embrace the infinite possibilities that emerge when we live in alignment with our values and purpose.

Becky discusses her passion for holding space for others and the deep listening required to help people reconnect with their truest selves. She speaks about grief and joy coexisting, about the importance of allowing what is, and about how transformation often begins with slowing down and listening within.

Her story is one of resilience, vision, and gentle power—a powerful reminder that the journey to “becoming” is not linear but deeply worthwhile.

Whether you’re a coach, a seeker, or someone navigating your own transitions, this conversation invites you to breathe deeper, show up more fully, and trust that you are exactly where you’re meant to be.

In this insightful episode, Paul Boehnke, author of Think Well: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life, shares his journey from classical musician to transformational life coach. Paul discusses how years of inner criticism and self-doubt as a musician led him to explore personal growth and the power of mindset.

He dives into the mechanics of self-talk, emphasizing that the way we think determines the way we feel and ultimately the way we act. Paul describes how most people are unaware of the subconscious scripts running their lives, often rooted in limiting beliefs formed during childhood. He offers practical tools for identifying and replacing those thoughts with empowering alternatives.

The conversation explores the intersection of spirituality and mindset, with Paul describing moments of deep presence and inner peace that resemble the feeling of “infinity”—a recurring theme in the podcast. He encourages listeners to pause, reflect, and cultivate awareness as the first step toward meaningful transformation.

Paul’s warm, grounded approach and clear insights offer a refreshing take on how small shifts in thinking can create lasting impact. His message: change is possible for anyone willing to become conscious of their inner world.

In this episode of Having an Affinity for Infiniti, host Chaya Abelsky sits down with ICT Wellness Coach Rachel Rosenberg to discuss how to maintain health, balance, and emotional well-being in the busy lead-up to Passover. With the holiday bringing a mix of excitement and stress, Rachel shares practical strategies for staying centered, nourishing the body, and managing expectations.

Topics covered include:

• Mindful preparation: How to approach cleaning and cooking with intention rather than overwhelm.

• Nutrition during the holiday season: Simple ways to maintain energy and avoid burnout.

• Emotional well-being: Techniques to manage stress and create a calm, joyful atmosphere for the family.

• The power of small habits: How small, sustainable changes can make a big difference in overall health.

This conversation offers listeners practical, life-changing tools to navigate the season with clarity and well-being while staying true to their personal and spiritual goals.

In this insightful episode, Infinit Coaching Podcast welcomes Dr. Elizabeth Moran, an executive coach and leadership consultant with a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. Dr. Moran shares her expertise on navigating change, developing leadership agility, and building resilience in high-pressure environments.

Key takeaways from the conversation include:

🔹 The Psychology of Change – Understanding how leaders and teams experience transitions, and why resistance is a natural response.
🔹 Coaching as a Transformational Tool – How coaching helps individuals reframe challenges and develop strategies for sustainable growth.
🔹 Emotional Agility in Leadership – The importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence in adapting to shifting circumstances.
🔹 Practical Tips for Coaches & Leaders – Actionable advice for guiding clients or teams through uncertainty with confidence and clarity.

Dr. Moran’s approach integrates psychological insights with real-world leadership practices, making this episode a must-listen for coaches, managers, and professionals seeking to lead effectively in today’s dynamic world.

In this episode, we sit down with acclaimed author and thought leader Laura Berman Fortgang. She shares her deep, insightful perspectives on leadership, personal transformation, and building resilience. Laura’s wisdom challenges conventional approaches and inspires listeners to embrace innovative strategies for growth—both personally and professionally. A must-listen for anyone eager to elevate their journey with practical, transformative insights.

In this episode, we dive into the intersection of mental health, eating disorders, and coaching, exploring how thoughtful, individualized coaching can complement therapeutic approaches to foster lasting healing. Our guest shares insights on recognizing the underlying triggers of disordered eating, building a supportive environment, and empowering clients to develop healthier relationships with food and themselves. Whether you're a coach, someone affected by these challenges, or simply curious about this critical topic, this conversation offers practical tools, real stories, and a fresh perspective on navigating the path to recovery.

In this insightful episode, we sit down with Sara Salvay, a veteran educator and passionate advocate for emotional intelligence in schools. Sarah Salvay her inspiring journey of integrating coaching techniques into her work, using tools from the Infiniti Coach Training Program to create meaningful change in her students' lives. Learn how Sara's approach has positively impacted her school community, fostering resilience, empathy, and confidence among her students. This episode is a must-listen for educators, coaches, and anyone interested in the transformative power of emotional intelligence in education.