In my last episode we did a deep-dive for International Female Orgasm Day, including busting through some of the many misconceptions around female sexuality. So this week, I'm bringing on my friend and colleague, Sex Coach Same, to unpack some of the inaccurate and harmful messaging around male sexuality. Whether it's misinformation from society, media or pressure we put on ourselves, we can break the cycles and Sam was happy to share to tools to do this vital self-work.
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August 8th is International Female Orgasm Day! So I’m diving into history, bad science, and reclaimed pleasure. Where did this holiday came from? What is the orgasm gap (and why does it still exist)? How can we push back against a society that tries to control our sexuality? I'm unpacking all these questions and more. If you’ve ever been curious about the clit, the G-spot, or why pleasure still feels taboo—this one’s for you!

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In this episode (recorded live at DomCon LA) I interview Lady Sheba, a powerful Black kink educator and leather community photographer. Sheba shares her journey from curious submissive to confidence-wielding Dominant, exploring how kink helped her reclaim her femininity after trauma. Together we discuss the challenges Black women face in kink spaces, the importance of representation, mentorship, and community accountability, and Sheba’s inspiring photography project for the Carter-Johnson Leather Library & Collection, documenting influential figures in the Leather and BDSM worlds. We also gush about our visit to the iconic Tom of Finland House and the importance of preserving kink history.

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In this powerful episode, I talk with Berlin-based kink artist and educator, Sven Brandy aka "Carnivore". Sven shares his journey from nude photography to immersive kink art, emphasizing consent, authenticity, and cultural differences in kink between Europe and the US. They discuss "play shooting," the art of integrating photography with interactive kink, and dive deep into Edgeplay, safety, preparation, and ritual. Sven also shares his teaching philosophy, upcoming projects, and insights into building supportive kink communities. Whether you're curious about kink artistry or advanced edge play, this episode offers grounded, inspiring wisdom from decades of lived experience.

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Kat is joined by two guests, Smokey the Babe and Vana X . They dive deep into the evolution of embracing one’s true self within the kink community, share their personal journeys, and discuss the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent. From nostalgic stories of discovering kink to navigating the complexities of relationship dynamics, this conversation is full of playful insights and candid reflections. So, get comfortable, open your mind, and enjoy this thought-provoking session with Kat, Smokey and Vana!

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In this episode of the Good Love Project Podcast, Katrina and Charlie dive into the importance of solo exploration and how it can deepen self-awareness, boost confidence, and enhance both personal and partnered pleasure. They debunk common myths—like the idea that solo pleasure is just a "substitute" or a sign of dissatisfaction—and talk about shifting the mindset to embrace self-connection without guilt. You'll hear tips for unlearning shame-based habits, creating a pleasure-positive space, and exploring at your own pace. Plus, discover Katrina’s 30 Days of Solo Tantra playlist on YouTube for guided practices to support your journey.

Welcome to another insightful episode of The Good Love Podcast, where we delve into the realms of personal growth, relationships, and confidence. In today's episode, "Pleasure Mapping," your hosts, Katrina Boots Rainsong and the ever-insightful Charlie Sharp, explore the concept of understanding desires and boundaries through the creation of a "Pleasure Map." This episode serves as a personal guide to discovering what brings you joy and comfort, both physically and emotionally, while establishing clear boundaries to ensure safe and enriching experiences. As always, we bring to the table powerful discussions and practical exercises designed to inspire confidence and joy in both solo adventures and partnerships. We'll also touch on recent developments in digital privacy and free speech challenges, offering a unique perspective on how these factors intertwine with sexual education. So, get comfortable, and let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment together.

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In this episode, Kat and Charlie tackle the complex and often silenced topic of sexual shame. Listen in as they deconstruct societal myths around non-normative sexual preferences, explore the damaging impact of cultural and religious expectations, and emphasize the importance of embracing your authentic self.

With personal insights, candid discussions, and a touch of humor, they'll challenge the notion that there's a "right" way to have sex and shine a light on how misinformation fuels feelings of unworthiness. From addressing body image issues to sharing actionable tips for overcoming shame, today's conversation is all about fostering self-acceptance and open dialogue.

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