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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts
- Narrated by: Gary Chapman
- Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
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The 5 Love Languages of Children
- The Secret to Loving Children Effectively
- Written by: Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
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Every child has a unique way of feeling loved. When you discover your child's love language - and how to speak it - you can build a solid foundation for your child to trust you and flourish as he or she grows. In this audiobook for parents, teachers, single parents, and more, Drs. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell offer practical advice for how to discover and speak your child's love language - in dozens of ways!
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Warning: Christian book, riddled with bible references
- By Bobbijo on 2019-11-17
Written by: Gary Chapman, and others
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The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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Different people with different personalities express love in different ways. In fact, there are five very specific languages of love: Words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch. Dr. Gary Chapman’s original best seller was first crafted with married couples in mind, but the love languages have proven themselves to be universal. The message of this audiobook is now tailored to meet the unique and real desires of single adults.
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Very insightful!
- By Marie on 2021-01-26
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The 5 Love Languages for Men
- Tools for Making a Good Relationship Great
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
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The love she craves. The confidence you need. At the heart of every man is a desire to master what matters. Getting a compliment at work or on the court is nice, but nothing beats hearing your spouse say, "You make me feel loved." If you haven't heard that in a while or feel like you’re not bringing your A-game to your relationship, this audio book is for you.
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Cringy
- By sebastian on 2019-02-11
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers
- The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 8 hrs and 25 mins
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Never before has raising teens been so perplexing. If you are wondering what on earth you're doing wrong, you're not alone. But there is hope. By learning to meaningfully express love amid your teens' many changes, you can stay connected, maintain influence, and help them grow into healthy adults.
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Stopped listening after the second chapter.
- By Stephanie Coulson on 2020-07-19
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
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- Written by: John M. Gottman PhD, Nan Silver
- Narrated by: Eric Michael Summerer
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Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages.
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Great book for anyone
- By Amazon Customer on 2020-02-01
Written by: John M. Gottman PhD, and others
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
- The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex
- Written by: John Gray
- Narrated by: John Gray
- Length: 9 hrs and 28 mins
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In his classic guide to understanding the opposite sex, Dr. John Gray provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: They forgot they were from different planets.
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Thorough, Insightful, and Easy to Comprehend!
- By Anonymous User on 2021-06-01
Written by: John Gray
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The 5 Love Languages of Children
- The Secret to Loving Children Effectively
- Written by: Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
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Every child has a unique way of feeling loved. When you discover your child's love language - and how to speak it - you can build a solid foundation for your child to trust you and flourish as he or she grows. In this audiobook for parents, teachers, single parents, and more, Drs. Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell offer practical advice for how to discover and speak your child's love language - in dozens of ways!
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Warning: Christian book, riddled with bible references
- By Bobbijo on 2019-11-17
Written by: Gary Chapman, and others
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The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Different people with different personalities express love in different ways. In fact, there are five very specific languages of love: Words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch. Dr. Gary Chapman’s original best seller was first crafted with married couples in mind, but the love languages have proven themselves to be universal. The message of this audiobook is now tailored to meet the unique and real desires of single adults.
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Very insightful!
- By Marie on 2021-01-26
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The 5 Love Languages for Men
- Tools for Making a Good Relationship Great
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 3 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
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The love she craves. The confidence you need. At the heart of every man is a desire to master what matters. Getting a compliment at work or on the court is nice, but nothing beats hearing your spouse say, "You make me feel loved." If you haven't heard that in a while or feel like you’re not bringing your A-game to your relationship, this audio book is for you.
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Cringy
- By sebastian on 2019-02-11
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers
- The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 8 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Never before has raising teens been so perplexing. If you are wondering what on earth you're doing wrong, you're not alone. But there is hope. By learning to meaningfully express love amid your teens' many changes, you can stay connected, maintain influence, and help them grow into healthy adults.
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Stopped listening after the second chapter.
- By Stephanie Coulson on 2020-07-19
Written by: Gary Chapman
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
- A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated
- Written by: John M. Gottman PhD, Nan Silver
- Narrated by: Eric Michael Summerer
- Length: 10 hrs and 17 mins
- Unabridged
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Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages.
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Great book for anyone
- By Amazon Customer on 2020-02-01
Written by: John M. Gottman PhD, and others
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
- The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex
- Written by: John Gray
- Narrated by: John Gray
- Length: 9 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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In his classic guide to understanding the opposite sex, Dr. John Gray provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them. Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: They forgot they were from different planets.
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Thorough, Insightful, and Easy to Comprehend!
- By Anonymous User on 2021-06-01
Written by: John Gray
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Attached
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We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
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Overall informative but lacking in diversity
- By Anonymous User on 2021-02-22
Written by: Amir Levine, and others
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Love and Respect
- The Love She Most Desires; the Respect He Desperately Needs
- Written by: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
- Narrated by: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
- Length: 8 hrs and 47 mins
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Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It's the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find. While both men and women deserve both love and respect, in the midst of conflict the driving need for a woman is love and the driving need for a man is respect. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy.
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Good points but biased POV
- By Calgarian on 2020-08-13
Written by: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
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The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace
- Empowering Organizations by Encouraging People
- Written by: Gary Chapman, Dr. Paul White
- Narrated by: Dr. Paul White
- Length: 6 hrs
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Dramatically improve workplace relationships simply by learning your coworkers’ language of appreciation. Based on the number one New York Times best seller The 5 Love Languages® (over 12 million copies sold), this book will give you the tools to improve staff moral, create a more positive workplace, and increase employee engagement. How? By teaching you to effectively communicate authentic appreciation and encouragement to employees, coworkers, and leaders.
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8 Rules of Love
- How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
- Written by: Jay Shetty
- Narrated by: Jay Shetty
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
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Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
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Yes!
- By JT on 2023-06-15
Written by: Jay Shetty
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The 4 Seasons of Marriage
- Secrets to a Lasting Marriage
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Gary Chapman
- Length: 5 hrs and 20 mins
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Spring, summer, winter, fall. Marriages are perpetually in a state of transition, continually moving from one season to another—perhaps not annually, as in nature, but just as certainly and consistently. The seasons of marriage come and go. Each one holds the potential for emotional health and happiness, and each one has its challenges. The purpose of this book is to describe these recurring seasons of marriage, help you and your spouse identify which season your marriage is in, and show you how to enhance your marriage in all four seasons.
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Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- Written by: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
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When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable. Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn’t have to end there. Dr. Gary Chapman writes, “I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage.”
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Sound advice, but too much “God”
- By SaraFDJ on 2021-08-06
Written by: Gary Chapman
Publisher's Summary
Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio.
What the critics say
- 2005 Audie Award Winner, Personal Development/Motivational
" "Whether your marriage needs a tune-up or a major overhaul, these are powerful prescriptions delivered by a genial, wise man." (AudioFile)
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- Jess
- 2018-09-20
Life changing.
I was SO skeptical about this book. I am not a Christian and didn’t think I could relate it to. I was SO. WRONG. This book changed almost every relationship in my life for the better. Reading/ listening to this book should be a life requirement...like taxes.
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- Chiara C.
- 2018-12-10
Very interesting
I found this book to be very interesting and thought provoking. However, there is an underlying Christian focus that is not spoken of in its description. For someone who is not religious or for someone of another faith, they may lose focus at times where the Christian emphasis is highlighted.
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- Harm Sluiman
- 2018-09-14
Excellent Book
Dr Chapman has an amazing concept here. I just found out my wife had been cheating on me for the last 3 years and this book really helpped me understand myself and why she did this and what I could do to help heal. Saddly we are still divorcing but this is still helpping me understand and become closer with my kids, family and friends and even coworkers.
I will re listen over and over again to help refresh myself and follow Dr Chapman's theories in all my ruture relationships.
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- Jenny Soder
- 2018-12-26
Required Listening
If you are in an intimate relationship, have friends, a family, or are seeking love, then this is what I consider to be required listening.
This incredible piece helped me understand how to love everyone around me much better.
Thank you X a million.
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- fernando
- 2018-09-17
Anyone should be aware of the 5 love languages
This book is universal, not only for married couples, it can be applied anywhere with your human connections. The concept is pretty simple and the power of the book comes from the simplicity of the concepts. Applying those concepts is the great challenge and it is 150% worth trying it. Any human relationship should be understood through this lenses. I loved it.
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- Tracy Wood
- 2019-01-10
Dated.
Dated examples but still solid core ideas. Needs updating for modern/young couples. Still very rooted in the idea that "women belong in the home" and too frequently brings Christianity into examples. There is no mention of any kind of reference to Christianity in the description of this book and therefore I feel that I should not be subjected to it. It was definitely disappointing.
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- Blair Stringer
- 2019-09-16
Dont waste your money
nothing wrong with the content of the actual 5 love languages, but this book is sooo unnecessary. just google the 5 and read up on it. every example he goes through are almost unbearable to listen to. hard not to roll my eyes as I listen to one dumb example after another. he even can't keep these languages organized and putting examples in working categories. being present is a gift?? what happened to quality time you dummy? then goes on to force men into the one category he likes by using a negative trick. im sorry but saying terrible things about someone is not the same as just not receiving complements. One take away from the book is that women should stay home and have my damn meal cooked when I get home! the kitchen is where you belong apparently.
this info could have just been summed up in 10 minutes. bullet points are all that is necessary. wish I hadn't given this guy more money.
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- MSJ
- 2019-08-16
Everyone should have a copy
There is so much misunderstanding when it come to communicating love in long-term relationships. I sincerely appreciated the way Gary Chapman helps us find ways to love, to have compassion in 'real' terms for our loved ones and for ourselves. Life's journey, however long or short, involves imperfect people trying to be happy and make others happy. This helps me understand why the cards and gifts made little impact; instead of being hurt, or closing my heart I can focus on loving in other ways, in ways that touch hearts and express more clearly the kind of love that I hold in my heart. I wish I had had this book 30 years ago, but I have it now. I really believe love long-term is possible -- never too old to learn. Thank you.
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- Jasmin
- 2022-02-22
HELPFUL
Amazing analysis of how to build deeper connections through actively showing love. If you suffer from feeling shallow love, check this book out
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- Fr. Viatcheslav Davidenko
- 2021-11-30
Priceless insight
This book has the potential to change a life for the better. It helps one understand how to love and to be loved.
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- Vanessa
- 2007-02-08
Unexpected Brilliance
In one word, amazing! I will make this honest & to the point. As I am Australian we kind of like our info served straight up and no beating around the bush. I get tired of reading reviews that sound over the top of many peoples heads & those that make you wonder if they were paid to write it. Let me tell you this, from start to finish this guy knows his stuff. These Love languages Dr Chapman talks about transcend culture & speech language. They would work for anyone, anywhere in the world that has a desire to seek more from their partnership and is willing to listen. Dont let his funky southern accent put you off, it will actually endear you to him as you grow to admire his insights and find your own penny dropping inside. Everything he said made sense, plain english and would apply to everyone's situation whether married, in a relationship or not. Its real info that can be used to reopen and then keep the channels of communication open between partners. Also info that will make giving & receiving love as well as being lovable so much easier. It doesnt focus so much on the differences between men and women like in the Mars Venus Series of John Gray but more on the WAY we love. It explains why those suggestions you get in magazines dont always work so well. SO refreshing and info that I didnt even know I needed! Our marriage was in a rut & I can honestly say that when trying some suggestions from the book my husband immediately responded. He even wanted to listen to the book with me and we disussed things as we listened. It has brought us so much closer and helped us to connect again while learning more about ourselves and each other. We plan to go further with our "reading" as we have a new hobby, listening to books together. I hope Dr Chapman will keep writing! Thanks Dr!
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- Jennifer
- 2005-12-05
L-O-V-E this book!
This is a great book. I have the print copy, but found it difficult for my long time fiance and myself to find time to read it together - the audiobook was a great answer. Dr. Chapman's work on the five love languages is insightful and helps us to realize just why some things that are so simple and basic to us, may not be understood by our mate. When miscommunication occurs, you can sometimes be left wondering, "who is this person I am with?" but a look into the five love languages can really help identify these issues and Dr. Chapman gives suggestions on how to work through them together - all the while loving each other BETTER! =) I definitely recommend this book to anyone who has ever felt confused about relationships, whether it be with family, friends, or significant others. Who is NOT in this category? =) So many relationship books seem like so much reading and not enough action ... or just so much work ... or just fluff. But this is NOT work, it is not fluff, and it is not words without action. It is great knowledge that you can begin to apply TODAY. I also think Dr. Chapman's narration of the book was excellent - you can really hear the sincerity of his voice, and the excitement he evokes when telling his stories. I will especially point out a part in the book we loved - when he talks about vacuuming the house, how he hated it as a kid and how he never thought he'd have to do that as a grown-up - but he now HAPPILY does it weekly for his wife, and in his words, "There is only one reason: L-O-V-E!"
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- O'Hara
- 2012-05-12
Not That Great After All
The other reviews I read made me think this would be full of great insights. I had to fast forward through the first part, which was a long, self-congratulatory interview with the author. The five languages were no big surprise - kind words, gift-giving, service, touching, and quality time. All five are good things to do for your loved ones. I'd call this a case of Expando Publishing - taking what should be a brochure or flyer and expanding it into a full length book.
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- Jana
- 2016-06-25
A Silver Bullet?!
Wonderfully simple, practical concepts that provide us truly effective methods of expressing and receiving love. Any and all relationships could benefit from the information contained in this book. While it is written from a Christian perspective and focuses almost exclusively on married couples experiencing some level of dysfunction in their marriages, the material can be interpreted in any way that best serves your needs. I myself am not a Christian nor am I married, but this has offered wonderful clarity and help to me and my significant other as we co-create the relationship of our dreams together. Hoping to put these lessons to use to set us up for success so we won't need the damage control down the road!
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- Jonathan
- 2012-05-29
A Few Diamonds, a Lot of Rough
Would you try another book from Gary Chapman and/or Gary Chapman?
I might, under the right circumstances.
Would you ever listen to anything by Gary Chapman again?
I might, under the right circumstances.
Which character – as performed by Gary Chapman – was your favorite?
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You didn’t love this book... but did it have any redeeming qualities?
There's some wisdom in there.
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This book is about 25% heavy-handed religious rhetoric, 25% folksy nonsense, and 25% outright B.S. But the remaining 25% is genuinely insightful, interesting, and helpful. If you're willing to dig through the muddy presentation, there are some wonderful nuggets of wisdom.
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- C M
- 2020-05-18
Missing elements
The core idea of this book is great! Love languages make sense. However one of my issues is in the overly gendered language in the book. It would be so much easier to say they/them and partner instead of gendering everything. Also that author never mentioned trauma or ptsd. I really think a book that deals in psychology should at least mentioned them so that when people continue to have issues even after learning the love languages they can understand what role traumas plays in expressing love.
I also was very disturbed by the authors suggestion (in a story he was recalling) that the wife should have sex with her husband at least once every week even though she clearly wasn’t comfortable doing so!! That woman could have a history of sexual trauma and telling her to “love her enemy” could be re-traumatizing.
Overall, the love language idea is great but the authors heavy Christian influence and lack of regard for trauma and ptsd is concerning.
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- Bill C.
- 2008-02-20
Highly Recommended
I am a chaplain and speak with a lot of people. I have found myself recommending this book more than any other. The books is not a list of techniques used to manipulate people. It is a discussion about how to truly serve others in the way they want to be served. We often serve others in the way that we would like to be served. Then, we wonder why they don’t respond. Dr. Chapman helps us to overcome this mistake and discover the means by which our spouses and children like to receive love. Throughout the book, he also gives us practical advice on how to fulfill those needs.
The fundamentals are especially helpful in marital and family relationships and can be applied, in a limited manner to casual relationships as well.
One should not be surprised that the book has distinctly Christian worldview. It is published by Oasis. I do not know of a book they publish that is not distinctly Christian.
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- H. Zambrana
- 2005-07-15
A sure way to inject life into your marriage.
My wife and I discovered this book about eight years ago. It is a practical book that touches on a problem most couples experience - different ways of expressing love. Dr. Chapman is equally funny and brilliant on his exposition of the love languages. I have successfully used and practiced the principles he teach in his book not only in my marriage but with dozens of couples I have mentored. It works! Speaking the love language of your spouse will take your marriage to new heights or revive the relationship you're in. Read it and apply it.
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- Lisa
- 2016-01-20
Too religious for me
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I started to listen to this but was really turned off by the preaching. I was surprised at how religious this book is based. I understand the concepts, but not a fan of the book and how it was written. If you are religious you will probably really enjoy this, just not my cup of tea.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2020-04-22
Not for me
This book may be helpful to some, but overall it was of very little help to me. It’s rooted in Christian beliefs and uses outdated gender stereotypes throughout. The small updates here and there that are supposed to reflect the changing times weren’t enough for me. Many of the author’s declarations of what love is and how one should show it, I’m sorry to say I just flat out disagree with. Sure, the basic principles in this book are good- people express love differently and it’s helpful to have an awareness of this and incorporate it into meeting the emotional needs of your partner* (note this book only addresses spouses/married couples). However love is not a performance between partners, it’s not about getting “credit” for doing something kind, as the author writes. It’s not about pleasing your partner physically and emotionally to the detriment of yourself. For example, the author advises one woman to stay with her emotionally abusive husband and seeing if he eventually comes around, quoting the Bible “love your enemies, do good to them that hate you”. I find that advice very troublesome. The author consistently credits himself as a miracle worker, but I think he’s partly, if not largely using shame and religion to prevent couples from divorcing. I realize I’m in the minority here in this review section, but this book was not my cup of tea.
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- Igor
- 2017-06-26
Useful for every current or to-be couple.
Useful for every current or to-be couple. All results will come with practice, not just reading this book.
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- 2023-01-31
Essential reading in order to love
For those who want to know how to love and to feel loved, reading, or listening, to this book is the best way to start!
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- Renee
- 2018-09-27
a good way to know yourself and your spouse.
we understand the pattern that we spouse have to take to be more and a better communicater through the book. and we really understand our self and what we are and what we want. and that amazing. it help us understand that what we want is not that the other needs.
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