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Attached
- The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
- Narrateur(s): Robert Petkoff
- Durée: 7 h et 4 min
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8 Rules of Love
- How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
- Auteur(s): Jay Shetty
- Narrateur(s): Jay Shetty
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Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
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Yes!
- Écrit par JT le 2023-06-15
Auteur(s): Jay Shetty
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Anxiously Attached
- Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
- Auteur(s): Jessica Baum
- Narrateur(s): Jessica Baum
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An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love. In Anxiously Attached, seasoned psychotherapist and couples counselor Jessica Baum guides listeners through understanding their attachment style at its core.
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Best book I've come across in years!
- Écrit par arozturn le 2023-08-26
Auteur(s): Jessica Baum
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The Mountain Is You
- Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery
- Auteur(s): Brianna Wiest
- Narrateur(s): Stacey Glemboski
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Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential.
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- Écrit par Utilisateur anonyme le 2022-10-05
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Getting the Love You Want
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- Auteur(s): Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Narrateur(s): Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
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The New York Times best-selling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new foreword and a brand-new chapter.
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This will help at least a little bit
- Écrit par melissa woehler le 2019-07-18
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Atlas of the Heart
- Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
- Auteur(s): Brené Brown
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In Atlas of the Heart, Brown takes us on a journey through 87 of the emotions and experiences that define what it means to be human. As she maps the necessary skills and an actionable framework for meaningful connection, she gives us the language and tools to access a universe of new choices and second chances - a universe where we can share and steward the stories of our bravest and most heartbreaking moments with one another in a way that builds connection.
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Finding it Ironic
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The Power of Attachment
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From our earliest years, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our daily emotional landscape, our relationships, and how we feel about ourselves. And in the wake of a traumatic event - such as a car accident, severe illness, loss of a loved one, or experience of abuse - that attachment style can deeply influence what happens next.
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Wonderfully helpful!
- Écrit par Utilisateur anonyme le 2023-06-29
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8 Rules of Love
- How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
- Auteur(s): Jay Shetty
- Narrateur(s): Jay Shetty
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Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
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Yes!
- Écrit par JT le 2023-06-15
Auteur(s): Jay Shetty
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Anxiously Attached
- Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
- Auteur(s): Jessica Baum
- Narrateur(s): Jessica Baum
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An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love. In Anxiously Attached, seasoned psychotherapist and couples counselor Jessica Baum guides listeners through understanding their attachment style at its core.
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Best book I've come across in years!
- Écrit par arozturn le 2023-08-26
Auteur(s): Jessica Baum
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The Mountain Is You
- Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery
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- Narrateur(s): Stacey Glemboski
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Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential.
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Getting the Love You Want
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The New York Times best-selling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new foreword and a brand-new chapter.
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This will help at least a little bit
- Écrit par melissa woehler le 2019-07-18
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Atlas of the Heart
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In Atlas of the Heart, Brown takes us on a journey through 87 of the emotions and experiences that define what it means to be human. As she maps the necessary skills and an actionable framework for meaningful connection, she gives us the language and tools to access a universe of new choices and second chances - a universe where we can share and steward the stories of our bravest and most heartbreaking moments with one another in a way that builds connection.
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Finding it Ironic
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The Power of Attachment
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From our earliest years, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our daily emotional landscape, our relationships, and how we feel about ourselves. And in the wake of a traumatic event - such as a car accident, severe illness, loss of a loved one, or experience of abuse - that attachment style can deeply influence what happens next.
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Wonderfully helpful!
- Écrit par Utilisateur anonyme le 2023-06-29
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People in relationships with avoidants struggle with their lack of responsiveness and inability to tolerate real intimacy. Relationships between an avoidant and a partner of another attachment type are the largest group of unhappy relationships, and people who love their partners and who may have started families and had children with an avoidant will work very hard to try to make their relationships work better, out of love for their partner and children as well as their own happiness.
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With practical tools, poetry, and prompts for journaling and meditation to lead to self-understanding in each chapter, Zebian shows you how to build each room in your house. Written with her trademark power, candor, and warmth, Welcome Home is an answer to the pain we all experience when we don't feel at peace with ourselves.
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If you find yourself struggling to let go after a relationship ends, or you keep hitting the same wall in dating and relationships with emotionally unavailable people, this is not a sign that you are broken. It is a sign that somewhere along the way, you learned to sacrifice yourself in order to be loved. In Becoming the One, spiritual leader and visionary founder of the Rising Woman community Sheleana Aiyana offers a road map for transforming your relationship patterns to end the cycle of self-abandonment and move into the light of self-discovery.
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this book found me
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It’s completely normal to go through ups and downs. Yet, your relationships with others shouldn’t be something that causes you constant stress, anxiety, or worry. Profound relationships are vital to your mental and emotional well-being. A life filled with beautiful and long-lasting relationships is something you deserve, and it’s time you go out and create this for yourself!
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Excellent
- Écrit par fab le 2021-08-17
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"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this audiobook, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships - one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life.
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Paaaaainful performance.
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Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
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- Auteur(s): James Clear
- Narrateur(s): James Clear
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No matter your goals, Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving - every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.
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An actually actionable self help book.
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- Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
- Auteur(s): Bessel A. van der Kolk
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Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent more than three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust.
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Auteur(s): Bessel A. van der Kolk
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The Myth of Normal
- Auteur(s): Gabor Maté MD, Daniel Maté
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Gabor Maté’s internationally bestselling books have changed the way we look at addiction and have been integral in shifting the conversations around ADHD, stress, disease, embodied trauma, and parenting. Now, in this revolutionary book, he eloquently dissects how in Western countries that pride themselves on their health care systems, chronic illness and general ill health are on the rise. So what is really “normal” when it comes to health?
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In this accessible and groundbreaking book - filled with the moving stories of real people medical doctor and best-selling author Gabor Maté shows that emotion and psychological stress play a powerful role in the onset of chronic illness, including breast cancer, prostate cancer, multiple sclerosis and many others, even Alzheimer's disease.
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Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them - in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do "healthy boundaries" really mean - and how can we successfully express our needs, say "no", and be assertive without offending others? Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world.
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Life changing!
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Attached to God
- A Practical Guide to Deeper Spiritual Experience
- Auteur(s): Krispin Mayfield
- Narrateur(s): Mark Smeby, K.J. Ramsey
- Durée: 5 h et 34 min
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We all experience moments when God's love and presence are tangible. But we also experience feeling utterly abandoned by God. Why? The answer is found when you take a deep look at the other important relationships in your life and understand your attachment style. Through his years working in trauma recovery programs, extensive research into attachment science, and personal experiences with spiritual striving and abuse, licensed therapist Krispin Mayfield has learned to answer the question: Why do I feel so far from God?
Auteur(s): Krispin Mayfield
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"A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)
We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
Discover how an understanding of adult attachment—the most advanced relationship science in existence today—can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
- Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
- Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
- Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.
Attached guides listeners in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
*Includes a PDF of the attachment style questionnaire
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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"A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." (John Gray, PhD., best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus)
"Amir Levine and Rachel Heller have written a very smart book: It is clear, easy to read, and insightful. It's a valuable tool whether you are just entering a relationship with a new partner or—as in my case—even after you've been married 21 years, and had thought you knew everything about your spouse." (Mariette DiChristina, editor in chief, Scientific American)
"Attached is a fascinating and enormously useful guide to one of life's most important ventures—finding and sustaining a secure, satisfying love relationship. Based on 25 years of research, laced with vivid and instructive examples, and enriched with interesting and well-designed exercises, the book provides deep insights and invaluable skills that will benefit every reader." (Phillip R. Shaver, PhD, Distinguished Professor of Psychology, University of California, Davis and Past President, International Association for Relationship Research)
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 2021-02-22
Overall informative but lacking in diversity
This book was very informative for me and I think will be very helpful in my life, I appreciated the concrete things one can do to work towards a secure attachment style. However, it was disappointing to see that a research based text could be so devoid of mentioning any sort of diversity of relationships or how culture intersects. It is annoyingly heteronormative and has a strictly monogamous view on relationships. It also doesn't take into account how other factors, such as mental health, may impact attachment styles (imo this can play a huge role).
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- 2021-01-31
no background on attachment styles
I think more background regarding as to why these attachment styles behave a certain way would have helped understand them better. Without such explanation avoidants come off as complete selfish jerks in this book. Overall, I like the examples, explanation, and all the research that is given.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2021-01-31
Single most important book about relationships!
This book is brilliant. It is the single most important book about relationships. Be sure to use the attached PDFS for the quizzes portions.
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- Jason
- 2019-11-14
Amazing insight - must read!
A must read for all individuals as a base of understanding and supporting healthy interpersonal relationships in romance (and possibly non work relationships & friendships as well).
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 2023-06-10
Life Changing
I recently went through a breakup and wanted to better understand what happened. This book had been recommended a year ago but I only just decided to dive into it. I’m sorry I waited so long to read it as I feel like what I learned will actually change the course of my life. I’m feeling really positive about future relationships as I now have a toolkit to better understand potential partners and use effective communication strategies. This book is a must read for those looking for love and even for people in happy relationships. I’ve already recommended it to several friends and will continue to do so.
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- Amy Tuer
- 2023-01-02
Must read (especially for the broken-hearted)
Great read. Very insightful and a great tool for growth after a break-up, especially while you’re still processing. However, there is a bias towards the anxious attachment and against the avoidance. That said, there is still great foundational knowledge to take to a therapist but it won’t cure you. It’s a great start.
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- KNP
- 2022-01-24
I made a hasty review and changing it now
Initially struggled not realizing there is an accompanied PDF 😑 Silly me, this is much better now!
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- Marco
- 2021-04-03
great book
loved it, some really helpful tips and knowledge within this book. would recommend to all.
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- Taz
- 2023-11-19
Listened 3 times
It's so helpful that I’m buying the book. I wish they provided the lists they read in the pdf
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-11-15
Game Changer if you want to improve your relationships.
Excellent book with real life scenarios and quick and practical strategies. I would 100% recommend it.
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- 2023-01-24
Eye-opening
This book is amazing. It is extremely insightful, educational and pragmatic. It portays in details the 3 attachment styles: the secure, the avoidant and the anxious. It explains their underlying principles, triggers, activating and deactivating strategies, why they behave in the way they do etc. It provides invaluable insights into patterns of behaviour of ourselves, our partners (and people around us in general) with a myriad of real-life examples of situations and conversations. A very, very warm recommendation for anyone having a hard time navigating in the romantic landscape.
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- 2020-09-08
Great book that everyone should listen to
Talks about 3 types of attachement styles. Learned a lot about my type and my partner type and What to do or how to communicante.
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- 2021-11-25
Excellent !
Le livre donne bcp d'information utile de façon très claire avec les exemples et mêmes les solutions idéales à la situation indiquée. Je n'ai pas attendu de le profiter tellement. Je le recommande forte ! Il donne la clarification nécessaire en expliquant nos comportements mais aussi ceux de notre partenaire. L'audio était très engageant aussi, je ne m'ennuyait pas du tout.
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- Ralfe
- 2020-08-18
Great lessons
A skillful presentation of current research-based lessons for relationship success. i wish i had this book years ago!
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- lemon pie
- 2020-05-29
A game changer
A fascinating and potentially life changing book about relationship styles - I hung on to every word!
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- Laetitia
- 2020-05-13
Génial
Un must have, bénéfique pour tout le monde en couple ou pas! A écouter et réécouter
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- Mark
- 2020-02-01
Good book - just not a good one for Audible
There were just too many tests and checklists in this book for it to be a descent audio book. The information is good, but much better suited to a real book to get the most out of it.
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- The Weeping Wizard
- 2020-11-23
No More Leaving It Up to “Chance”
I am of the rare category this book briefly touches on: An individual who simultaneously possesses both an anxious and an avoidant attachment style in relationships.
Between this book and B. van der Kolk’s, The Body Keeps the Score, I feel almost reborn. To be aware of the issues I have brought into relationships, even if they’re of a platonic nature, feels incredibly enlightening, powerful, and revealing.
This book in particular felt as though I was being liberated from “fate”, while at the same time, exposing me to the unhelpful thinking patterns that have been accomplice in keeping me from having the type of relationship I truly desire with a partner.
It helped me understand my accountability and the accountability of others in a relationship; it helped me reshape the way I viewed dependency; gave me incredibly relatable scenarios of areas where I know I need to improve (without making me feel awful); and gave me tips on how to spot behaviors that aren’t going to be helpful in myself, or with a potential/current partner if I want to be the most fulfilled I can be in a relationship.
To say I’m grateful is an understatement.
If you’re tired of leaving things to chance and sincerely want to understand the simple things of what you can do to be ready for and aware of the type of relationship you want, this book is the best place to start.
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- Jasmine
- 2019-12-17
Very "self help" but overall good information
My main complaints about this book are that it's not very inclusive of folks who practice ethical non-monogamy or polyamory. And I disagree with some small parts of what they say. However, the main information in this book is incredibly helpful in all relationships, even if this is focused on romantic and sexual ones. Helped me realize some things about myself, and I will recommend it to others. Essential reading for anyone dating in the modern age.
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- Rachel
- 2020-06-15
Wow
I have never written a book review before but this was easily one of the most important books I have ever read. Do not hesitate. Highly recommend!!!
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- tkA
- 2021-03-26
Great read but...
This was a great read! Very eye-opening. It however could have been much better.Its faults include: it is very obviously biased towards those with the anxious/preoccupied attachment style; it gives the impression that those with secure attachment style are holly good fellas that just roll through life in a state of perpetual joy and satisfaction; it does not mention anything about the underlying cause of the attachment styles (which was utterly disappointing); and finally, it gives the impression that the attachment styles are fixed across all relationship types (including non romantic ones) and I dont feel this is true.
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 2020-04-21
One sided, but informative
Overall the book is average, based on its one sided point of view. Often times the author sided with the Anxious attachment perspective. This view point could leave someone with the thought, no change is necessary on their end. I would reccomend this book to almost anyone, but don't take it for gospel. I believe this book allows you to understand your attachment style and recognize your protest cues, so I'll recommend based on that perspective.
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 2020-06-30
For those Mourning a Breakup
This helped me so much to get over a relationship and recognize what I need in a partner.
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- Myles114
- 2020-04-23
Decidedly Helpful but too Narrowly Focused
The theories presented are undoubtedly helpful in our understanding of relationships and how we “attach” to others. However I found the content slanted in favour of traditional monogamous pair bonds. In no way did it consider or even acknowledge how this information may be applied or interpreted in other viable emergent relationship arrangements.
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- Jonathan Wilson
- 2020-12-01
Interesting science, poor interpretation
Basically it says, anxious people need to avoid dating about 90% of the available dating field. Then it gives you red flags to look for in who to avoid.
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- Utilisateur anonyme
- 2020-06-10
It’s good to know you are not alone
I always thought it’s just me (I have both anxious & avoidant behaviours) but after this book I know what my problems are, it’s good to view my issues in relationships from a third person.
I love how this book put a lot of examples/stories and also tell us how we should do instead. But I wish it could explain more and deeper on how to change the mindset and behaviour.
Recommend to everyone.
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