• 123 | Mastering the Art of Work-Life Balance: Lessons from Kaylee & Robert Fukui
    Jun 20 2024

    Show Notes:

    Gain work-life balance insights from married entrepreneurs Kaylee and Robert Fukui in this enlightening episode. Learn their secrets for managing business and family demands while nurturing their relationship. Discover practical tips for balancing work and personal life, ensuring harmony and fulfillment. Tune in for valuable advice and embark on a journey to greater success and harmony.

    -Kendra

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    Kay Lee and Robert Fukui

    Podcast- Thriving in Tandem.

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    https://marriedentrepreneur.co/

    Book: https://www.thetandembook.com/

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    33 min
  • 122 | The Path to Wellness Beyond Diet Culture: Holistic Healing with Kelsey Wickenhauser
    Jun 17 2024

    Show Notes:

    Join us on an inspiring journey of faith, health, and purpose as Kelsey Wickenhauser, a fellow podcaster, physician’s assistant, and health coach shares her insights on breaking free from diet culture's grip and discovering true wellness in alignment with a greater design. Today we’ll explore easy strategies for nourishing our bodies, prioritizing self-care, and embracing abundance.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Kelsey Wickenhauser

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    “The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without a purpose.”

    ― Myles Munroe

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    26 min
  • 121 | Embracing Personal & Family Discomfort: The Power of Cognitive Dissonance as a Catalyst for Change
    Jun 13 2024
    Show Notes: Ever felt that tug-of-war between who you are and who you think you should be? 🤔 Join us in this episode as we unravel the mystery of cognitive dissonance and discover how embracing discomfort can lead to profound personal transformation. Today, we’ll explore how inner conflict arises when our actions diverge from our core values, learning about cognitive dissonance and practical tips to live in alignment. Get ready to align your actions with your values and pave the path to a more authentic and fulfilling life! Enjoy! -Kendra Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org Contact → fulfillment.therapist@gmail.com Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching Chat → 1-855-542-8008 *Get questions answered before buying Cognitive Dissonance Values.pdf Definition of Cognitive Dissonance: Cognitive dissonance refers to the psychological discomfort experienced when individuals hold conflicting beliefs, attitudes, or behaviors. It occurs when there is a misalignment between one's actions and their deeply held values or beliefs, leading to a sense of inner conflict or tension. Ex. from listeners and clients: Ben believes in kindness and controlling his temper, but he’s so bitter with his ex that he is his worst self every time he thinks of her and it affects his current relationships. He struggles being kind when it involves anything with her, and justifies his rudeness.Sara believes in self care and improving your mental health, but she can’t seem to make time for it personally. She gives and gives to her family and feels threadbare and on the verge of breaking down regularly. She is secretly resentful, but doesn’t share this with others.Jake believes it’s important to cultivate his spirituality, but he doesn’t do much besides show up for church. He never seems to find the time to read scriptures, pray, or meditate.Lindsay wants to get in better physical health, but instead she just puts on more weight and finds herself shopping and eating more, in attempts to avoid her marriage and parenting problems. 3 Quick Tips: 10 Minutes of Self-Reflection on Sunday Mornings: Take time to reflect on your core values and beliefs. Identify areas in your life where your actions may not align with these values. Honest self-assessment can help you recognize areas for improvement. (ex. I value learning and cultivating talents, but I’m not modeling that for my kids or I value family togetherness and quality time, but we’re all on screen every evening) Set Clear Intentions: Define clear intentions and goals that are in harmony with your values. Whether it's in your personal relationships, career, or lifestyle choices, setting intentions aligned with your values can guide your decision-making process. (ex. I signed up for an art class and we’re having a family meeting on how it’s important for ALL family members to cultivate talents and live intentionally without making excuses). Practice Authenticity: Be true to yourself and prioritize authenticity in your thoughts, words, and actions. Act in accordance with your values, even if it means stepping outside your comfort zone or facing challenges. Living authentically fosters a sense of integrity and inner peace. (Ex. being brave on social media or lovingly confronting a friend that says hurtful things about what you value. It is remembering that you are as important as the others in the room and that you also deserve respect. It’s acting as if you believe that, and also where you treat them as if they matter as much as you do. Another example is treating drivers or clerks with the same respect you’d want). A few other quick thoughts: Cognitive dissonance is a gift. It teaches us something is wrong. Sometimes it feels like guilt, but we can prevent it from feeling like shame and challenge thoughts that say “I’m wrong” and change them to “what I’m doing isn’t in alignment with who I am and who I want to be.” When you’re so uncomfortable, you finally change. Find mentors that will elevate you and get you out of complacency and justification. Pay for things that will help you become your best self.Stop saying why you CAN’T. Explore how you can say yes.If it’s a priority you’ll find a way, if not, you’ll find an excuse.Live your life believing things will work out and not why they won’t (ex. Trainings, travel, financial independence, optimal health, spiritually strong).
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    16 min
  • 120 | Mastering the Art of Relationships & Parenting with Dr. David McMillan
    Jun 10 2024

    Show Notes:

    Welcome to a thoughtful episode of Fulfillment Therapy featuring the seasoned psychologist and author, Dr. David McMillan. With 40 years of experience to his name, Dr. McMillan offers valuable insights on improving marriages and transforming your approach towards parenting. Through our candid discussion, we uncover nuanced details about relationship dynamics by exploring his 'Sense of Community' theory and his profound principles on managing emotions.

    Dr. McMillan introduces you to the four fundamental elements that bind relationships - belonging, power and trust, trade, and story. He walks us through these elements and their subcategories, providing a clear road map for nurturing relationships, acknowledging differences, and balancing personal needs with responsibilities of parenthood.

    One of the highlights of this episode is the exploration of Dr. McMillan's enriching books, 'Create Your Own Love Story' and 'Emotion Rituals'. His profound literature presents unique guides for building rewarding relationships and managing emotions. From cultivating belongingness to appreciating individuality, his advice is primed to positively reshape your interpersonal dynamics.

    In a detailed conversation about emotions and relationships, Dr. McMillan postulates the significance of creating a positive momentum in interactions for stronger bonds. He also emphasizes the need for partners to let go of ego and cultivate a nurturing spirit that enriches their relationship. Pointing at the concept of 'flow' in relationships, he advises couples to glide in harmony with life's rhythm instead of attempting to control the dynamics.

    As we explore the realm of parenting, Dr. McMillan suggests that teaching values to children is more effective than imposing penalties. He encourages listeners to approach relationships and life with curiosity, openness, and humility. To delve deeper into this pool of wisdom, visit Dr. McMillan's website and discover more ways to enrich your relationships.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    35 min
  • 119 | 5 Keys to Success: Discover What Matters MOST & How to Get It
    Jun 6 2024

    Show Notes:

    Welcome to today's episode, where we uncover the keys to personal success and fulfillment. Success is not one-size-fits-all; it's about defining what matters most to you and taking intentional steps to achieve it. We also talk about how to address other's opinions surrounding our paths. So, come join us today as we explore the five essential keys to discovering your unique path to success.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Success

    Values.pdf

    Key Takeaways:

    • Reflect on your core values to guide your decisions and actions.
    • Channel your frustrations into setting clear, actionable goals aligned with your values.
    • Embrace continuous learning and growth to fuel your journey toward success.
    • Cultivate resilience by reframing failures as learning opportunities and persisting in the face of adversity.
    • Celebrate your progress and small victories along the way to boost motivation and reinforce your commitment to success.

    Quotes:

    • "Values are like lighthouses; they are signals giving us direction, meaning, and purpose." - Unknown
    • "It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are." - Roy E Disney
    • "Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning.” - Benjamin Franklin
    • "Success is not the destination, but the journey. It's about the person you become along the way." - Kendra Nielson
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    23 min
  • 118 | Marriage Power Struggles: Rethinking Power Dynamics in Modern Families
    Jun 3 2024

    Show Notes:

    In today's episode, we discuss Terry Real and how to navigate disharmony, empower your relationships, and create thriving families. We learn the importance of prioritizing repair in conflicts, embracing vulnerability, and addressing unmet needs proactively. By working on assertive communication, mutual respect, and sharing responsibilities, we pave the way towards a more supportive environment for healing and growth within our families. Through compromise and resolution, we pave the way for stronger, more resilient relationships, and foster a harmonious and fulfilling family life.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

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    Marriage Power Struggle Tips:

    • Practice Active Listening: Take the time to truly listen to your partner's perspective without interrupting or invalidating their feelings. Seek to understand their point of view before expressing your own, fostering open communication and empathy.
    • Foster Mutual Respect: Cultivate an environment of mutual respect where both partners' opinions and contributions are valued. Avoid belittling or dismissive language and strive to treat each other with kindness and consideration.
    • Share Responsibilities Equally: Divide household chores, childcare duties, and decision-making responsibilities fairly between partners. Collaborate on important decisions and tasks, acknowledging each other's strengths and contributions.
    • Set Clear Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and expectations within the relationship, respecting each other's individual autonomy and personal space. Communicate openly about your needs and preferences to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts.
    • Seek Compromise and Resolution: Approach disagreements with a willingness to find common ground and compromise. Focus on finding solutions that benefit both partners rather than winning arguments or asserting dominance. Be proactive in addressing conflicts and resolving issues together.

    "It's not disharmony that's the problem, it's the inability to go from disharmony to repair that is the problem." - Terry Real

    "Under the patriarchal system, you can either be connected or powerful, but you can't be both." - Terry Real

    ‘Neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord’ (1 Corinthians 11:11).”

    “Men and women are equal—one is not superior to the other. They are also different, with different roles within a family. Both men and women fulfill their highest purpose together as husband and wife, not separately.” -LDS Website

    “We have learned by sad experience that it is the nature and disposition of almost all men, as soon as they get a little authority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise unrighteous dominion.

    Hence many are called, but few are chosen.

    No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned;

    By kindness, and pure knowledge, which shall greatly enlarge the soul without hypocrisy, and without guile…” -D&C 121:39-42

    "Family pathology rolls from generation to generation like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person, in one generation, has the courage to turn and face the flames." - Terry Real

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    25 min
  • 117 | Kensi's Sexual Abuse Story, Part 2: Navigating Complex Trauma & Cultivating Courage
    May 30 2024

    Show Notes:

    Today Kensi Evans is back on the show in Part 2 to share her story of sexual abuse. My friends, it is so insightful, authentic, and informational. If you’ve experienced sexual abuse, or have a loved one who has–which is probably all of us–you won’t want to miss this. She’s such a gem and this episode is packed with life changing perspectives that are going to help you in your own healing journey. You can thank her later, because you’ll want to.

    I hope this helps you in your own healing

    -Kendra

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    22 min
  • 116 | Kensi's Sexual Abuse Story: Navigating Complex Trauma & Cultivating Courage
    May 27 2024

    Show Notes:

    Today Kensi Evans is back on the show to share her story of sexual abuse. My friends, it is so insightful, authentic, and informational. If you’ve experienced sexual abuse, or have a loved one who has–which is probably all of us–you won’t want to miss this. She’s such a gem and this episode is packed with life changing perspectives that are going to help you in your own healing journey. You can thank her later, because you’ll want to.

    I hope this helps you in your own healing

    -Kendra

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