We all inherit some baggage from our families of origin — and often, we don't even realize we're carrying it! On today's episode, I'm talking about how you can explore the intergenerational cycles that may be holding you back, and then make some intentional choices about what you want to keep, and what you want to leave behind.

Breaking generational cycles is a self-affirming process. It frees you from ways of thinking and behaving that may have felt like "just the way things are," and allows you to become who you truly are at your core. And if you're parent, breaking generational cycles can be even more important, because it spares your kids from inheriting the junk that's weighing you down.

Tune in to learn all about how this works, including:

• 06:35 What Are Intergenerational Patterns?
• 09:49 Recognizing Your Patterns and Making Changes
• 21:22 Getting Help with Deeply Engrained Patterns
• 25:30 Emotional Intelligence and Generational Cycles
• 32:06 The Value of Structured Emotional Intelligence Work

When you have an anxious attachment style, it's hard to feel secure in your most important relationships. But learning how to self-soothe anxious attachment and create a stronger relationship with yourself can be the path to emotional freedom.

On today's episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast, we're discussing how you can stop relying on the people around you to regulate your anxiety, and learn to manage anxious feelings internally. This not only helps you have better relationships, it makes you stronger, happier, and more resilient.

My guest is attachment expert Thais Gibson, a counselor, YouTuber, and founder of the Personal Development School. Thais shared some eye-opening insights in this episode that you won't want to miss!

You'll learn:

• 00:00 Introduction to Attachment Theory
• 08:19 Thais' Background and Interest in Attachment Theory
• 16:21 Understanding Attachment Styles
• 28:15 The Danger of Pathologizing Attachment Styles
• 33:51 The Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships
• 39:11 Strategies for Healing Attachment Wounds
• 41:15 Reprogramming Core Wounds
• 45:40 The Power of Auto-Suggestion

And so much more. I hope you'll tune in!

xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Ready to transform your attachment patterns? Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/

If you've lived through a divorce, or you're going through one now, you know that ending a marriage comes with a lot of regrets.

You might regret not trying harder to save your marriage when you had the chance, or, if the divorce was your choice, you might have difficult moments when you regret your decision. You might even regret marrying your Ex in the first place!

Whatever flavor of divorce regret you're experiencing, this episode is for you. I'm talking about how you can not only cope with regret after divorce, but how you can use it to start a positive new chapter in your life.

You'll learn:

• 03:04 The Purpose of Regret in Healing after a Breakup or Divorce
• 10:10 Regret's and Its Relationship to Grief
• 11:07 Shifting Your Perspective on Mistakes and Regret
• 12:21 Learning from Regret to Build Healthier Relationships
• 13:47 Differentiating Healthy Regret from Shame
• 16:43 Exploring Regret through Journaling and Therapy
• 22:19 Creating a Constructive Narrative that Helps You Grow
• 24:04 Using Regret as a Catalyst for Change