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The Courage to Be Disliked

How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness

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The Courage to Be Disliked

Written by: Fumitake Koga, Ichiro Kishimi
Narrated by: Adrian Mulraney
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The Japanese phenomenon that teaches us the simple yet profound lessons required to liberate our real selves and find lasting happiness.

The Courage to Be Disliked shows you how to unlock the power within yourself to become your best and truest self, change your future and find lasting happiness. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 19th-century psychology alongside Freud and Jung, the authors explain how we are all free to determine our own future - free of the shackles of past experiences, doubts and the expectations of others.

It's a philosophy that's profoundly liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and those around us can place on ourselves. The result is an audiobook that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already benefited from its wisdom. Now that The Courage to Be Disliked has been published in English, so can you.

Please note: This is a recording of the 2018 print edition.

©2017 Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga (P)2018 Bolinda Publishing Pty Ltd
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Profound Book

A profound book which discusses Adlerian Psychology. I learned new concepts such as Life Tasks, Ernest Living and Dancing in the Here and Now.

I agreed and recognized some of the ideas as true - intuitively, while disagreeing with others - vehemently.

At no time did the book leave me in a state of neutral.

Not an easy read. Substantive and weighty, it will appeal to readers with an interest in psychology and philosophy.

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Delightful introduction to Adlerian philosophy

It presents the philosophy of Adler very clearly in a manner that works well for audiobooks (i.e., conversationally). The core message is that all problems are interpersonal relationship problems and that the courage to he disliked in interpersonal relationships is the definition of freedom.

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Lifechanging Book

Excellent book! Many times I paused, rewound a bit, and listened again. Sometimes I listened to just a chapter or so, a short, quite bit into a concept, and then pondered it for a time before returning to the book. Surprisingly, there were a few moments when the truth of the thoughts brought forward in this book rung so true in my being that I teared up and felt a lump in my throat, filled witb emotion. I find that while some thoughts and certainly vocabary are new to me, there are many aspects here that simply affirm the way I currently live my life. I find this book 'lifechanging' because it offers thought-provoking wisdom though manageable, relatable dialogue - and even in the reading of it, I have changed.

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Fantastic!!

This will be used in my everyday life! The structure of a dialogue between two people certainly helps to digest the information being presented.

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dialog is confusing at first

the dialog is confusing at first as it is all read by the same person, but pay attention to the voice of the narrator, he speaks more calm, slow, and "old" sounding when speaking as the philosopher and picks up the pace slightly in a less suave (but still suave) voice when speaking as the youth. a really amazing book and highly recommend

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Great wisdom within

The parable style and back and forth was hard to get into initially but this one is worth being patient with. Most self help books are recycling the same ideas, this one is unique

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The the way it was a conversation between 2 people

I love the way the book was a conversation between two people. This helped me understand a lot of what was being said. And the way it would circle back in a spot to bring home the point.

It is a wonderful way to help me understand how to live in the moment and how to start to change my way of thinking.

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courage to be free

the courage to be free (self-pity, self, jugement, people pleasing, competing, fears, anguish, etc) live a life in the now by standing for what our true and authentic nature of a free self worth means

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Wish everyone would read this

This book has been life changing for me
loved it so much that I've strongly recommended it to everyone i know

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Incredible

This book started off a bit dry but once I got used to the dialogue, the value in each sentence was incredible. The simplicity of the ideas unfolds into deep deep meanings that penetrate every moment of life. Highly recommend if you are interested in being a happier person who can see the world clearer

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