
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated
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Narrated by:
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Eric Michael Summerer
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Written by:
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John M. Gottman PhD
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Nan Silver
About this listen
Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages.
This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©1999, 2015 John Mordechai Gottman, PhD, and Nan Silver (P)2020 TantorYou may also enjoy...
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- Sharona
- 2022-05-12
Overall very helpful
There are a lot of hetero-normative examples. I could do without all the gender stereotypes, but the principles are what’s important. If you can get past the conservatism, it’s very helpful
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- Sheeram Babajee
- 2020-07-08
Lifetime tool
Worth it. Worth the time. Worth the money. Lifetime tool to be revise consistently by both partners as a team.
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- Maria sideris
- 2021-02-03
Marriage and relationships
This is the golden book on making your marriage and relationships work and thrive. Highly recommend!!
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- Eduardo Sosa
- 2023-07-17
Great advice
With very practical examples and exercises to do between couples
Great ideas for resolution of conflict
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- 2022-03-02
Must read
Great book on how to build the marriage you’ve always wanted. Breaks down the importance and why of of each step and then thoroughly explains how to do - both individual and couple exercises.
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- 2023-06-16
100% worth it !
Great content and easy to listen to. I even got in in paper form to take notes and make post-it all over it !
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- Kaylee
- 2023-07-14
Great book but...
This is my second time reading the seven principles. The book itself is full of great tools and I'd recommend to anyone in any romantic relationship. My only complaint is that the exercises are easier to follow by physically having the book, pen and paper infront of you. Audible is great if you're not able to sit or use in conjunction with a paperback copy to get the most benefits.
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- Fateme Bahri
- 2021-02-26
A great book for improving couples relationship
This book is awesome if you are looking to find more about dynamics of couples relationship and how to improve it. It's based on scientific studies and not some personal opinions.
The narration is great, easy to understand and follow.
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- xrmolina
- 2022-10-26
Amazing audio book
Great book full of wonderful information, very good eye opener. Definitely recommend to all couples.
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- David D.
- 2020-09-28
Great!
Great content. It would be nice to have the physical book now because their are so many questions to work through.
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